Attraction isn’t a skill it’s state and understanding.

bdusseau1988 · 2021-02-23T19:24:50+00:00

Flipping the script of approaching women as a numbers game to making yourself the number one priority is life changing.

IcarusBane1 · 2021-02-23T19:30:40+00:00

Yeah it’s a numbers game and skill game. Instead of trying to sell yourself to women. Make yourself the product that sells by itself

blck_bstinson · 2021-02-23T18:49:25+00:00

Yup you gotta be able to take the bold steps but also read the room. I think things will be a little different once the pandemic lets up. We all have mostly been shooting our shots on dating apps pulling girls out in public is so much more fun and exciting for both parties

-EvoL · 2021-02-24T03:28:30+00:00

Really kinda getting tired of the nonsense fortune cookie advice coming from this reddit. Most of these posts think they're profound but are about as helpful as rule 1 & 2...

Aghayden · 2021-02-23T19:12:28+00:00

Getting into that state is a skill itself so there's a bit of a chicken and egg problem with this argument.

waie_wun · 2021-02-23T18:27:08+00:00

Well stated.

gordons_vodka_lillet · 2021-02-23T22:39:54+00:00

I agree, but it doesn't mean you don't have to approach anymore. Women expect you to do it, most of the time they rather reject themselves than approach you.

cheers1337 · 2021-02-23T20:09:26+00:00

I am searching for a woman who will bring this feeling to me. And also pay for me and so on. And ill sick her dick.

justdoitstoopid · 2021-02-24T06:55:50+00:00

Bro why do people like op feel the need to make the same post everyday. Not saying its bs, but we don't need to hear the same preach everyday.

relentless_pma · 2021-02-24T15:00:18+00:00

I dont like these types of 'wisdoms'. Because attraction itself is a state indeed. But increasing skills (boldness, socialskills etc) will improve attraction results.

2021-02-23T19:11:14+00:00

Fuckin loser shut up I don't need all that when u got teeth

Special_Rice9539 · 2021-02-24T04:07:17+00:00

People still teach this state nonsense? I thought this trend died five years ago.

sirhc2021 · 2021-02-24T07:34:56+00:00

I'm enlightened. Lol You can't just do just a few things of anything and expect the same results. It's dynamic and everyone is different. What I find what really works is to be yourself no matter what with no apologies. Disagree with them, poke fun at them about something cute. Tell them that you notice some weird tick they have in certain instances. So yes confidence. You need to ask the right questions to the person that you may have "targeted.". I've found when you get someone out of their comfort zone and make them have a deeper conversation about, we'll just about anything that isn't the normal every day bullshit. You're showing them that you have interest in them without it coming across as you trying to get in their pants. Get them outside of their box. You need to read their body language and reactions and adjust on the move. LISTEN TO THEM. Don't try so hard because they are reading you too. They will notice. If you get the feeling they are pulling away, ignore them a little bit. They will come back. Make them laugh most of all! Make it something original and unique.

Lol I think I'm an expert. I've always had great success with women. I'm not a great looking guy, but I'm not ugly. But I've come to realize things that work and things that don't. It is a chess match with a lot of women. You really need to put yourself in their shoes. The majority of women are still slaves to biology. Don't play the guilt card and feel sorry for me bullshit stories. It may work for a drink night, but not if your in it for the long game.

I helped out a couple of people at work with great success and now I've got a line...I think I'm an expert all of a sudden because I've called it play by play. I'm actually considering trying to become a hook up artist for hire lol. I've heard there is a great book out there by some guy that I can't remember because I'm drunk. Oh yeah.... you probably shouldn't get your advice from a drunk guy because they don't know what they're talking about... send me all your situations if you want to get hooked up! Hahahaha

Title	Attraction isn’t a skill it’s state and understanding.
Author	calycostyle
Upvotes	49
Comments	28
Date	February 23, 2021 6:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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