Around a month ago I made a hard commitment to change my life and start being happier. I was in a major dry spell, wasn't getting the results I wanted, was a depressed AFC, and had just spent 3 months courting a girl who wouldn't have sex with me. I started reading seddit, seduction books, working out, watching RSD etc. and really making an effort to not only improve my game but to become a happier person and become more of a man. Here is a quick rundown of how my life has changed in the last month and why I think it did.

First off I deleted the prude's number from my phone. I was letting her behavior affect my state. My days were spent agonizing over text messages and wondering what my next move should be. I was completely outcome dependent with oneitis and that shit needed to stop. I live in a big city and I finally realized that abundance leads to outcome independence leads to more abundance.

With this new mindset I went out to a bar and started dancing up a storm on the floor. I had noticed there were a lot of girls dancing but no guys, so I said fuck it and busted out my horrible moves, but it didn't matter because I was genuinely having fun. Three cute Australian girls visiting America were dancing next to me, and twenty minutes later I was making out with one of them. They were super cool and we hit up an afterparty and had an amazing time until the early morning. The one I was getting along with told me she wanted to come over, but she wouldn't have sex with me. From past experience I knew that anytime a girl says she's not going to have sex with you, she's definitely considering having sex with you. Due to logistical problems she ended up staying at the hotel that night. Next night took the three girls to a classy bar. If you want a real confidence boost, walk up to a bar or club with 3 cute girls and the door man/woman will shower you with compliments. It's a great way to start your night and get in-state. We had a blast dancing to 90's music, grabbed my girl and started kissing. Other two cabbed it back to the hotel and me and my girl banged at my place. For three straight nights I tour guided these girls around the city and had a blast until they left.

I was starting to really enjoy this happier me, and it made everyone around me happier. I was getting along more with guys I would meet along the way, getting more looks from girls, and feeling jolly and carefree which is the fucking state I always wanted to exist in. This all snowballed a few nights later when I went with two girls to a club. I had been friends with these two girls for a while, they were attractive (HB10 and HB7) but I had never made a move on either and just kept it chill, but they knew I was a good guy. We walked up in the club and every single dude there was hitting on them. I was in my zone, dancing like crazy, getting invited into bottle service sections by dudes I had just met, dozens of hot girls around the tables, just loving life. How could this night get any better, I thought? Meanwhile, the two girls I was with kept telling me about a surprise I had coming. I was thinking to myself could this be an Amazon gift card? Perhaps a free meal at the end of the night? A threesome?? Nahh, threesomes don't happen in my shitty life. Wait, that was old me talking, maybe there's a chance...

We walk out of the club as it closes, promoters handing me their cards (obviously I knew this was only because I was with two hot girls, but fuck it, it felt good and added to my awesome state). The girls get in my car and tell me to step on the gas back to my place. As I'm driving they starting touching me up and down and told me they were both going to fuck me and yes, we were going to have a threesome. The hotter one is bi and holy shit, I was starting to freak out. I got a little nervous once we made it back to my place but I turned the lights off, starting bumping The Weeknd, and we tore each others clothes off and starting going at it. Just a month ago I was in the saddest state of my life, wanting to make a change, then consciously made that effort, and now I had two girls screaming my name at the same time as we did things I had only seen in porn. WTF? Was this my life or just a dream?

To top it off, the next night I was partying with a cute girl with an amazing body at her apartment, got her number after some intense kino escalation, walked down to my car, and sitting right next it on the sidewalk was a sealed bag with an ounce of weed in it. I grabbed it, went back up to the party and shared the wealth with everyone there.

It was the cherry on top of an amazing three weeks. I wanted a change, I acted on it, I studied, I applied the knowledge, I let go, I became outcome independent, I became happier, and everything fell into place. The universe wants to work with you, you just have to learn how to let it.

TLDR :Everyone has the ability improve their state once they begin to understand how it all works. Pretty soon you'll be on a roll, zero to sixty, snowball effect, better and better things happening from you becoming a happier person and more of a man. Outcome independence seemed to be the key for me. Everyone's life has peaks and valleys, but there is a way to hack the system and stop being that AFC because YOU deserve better.