Awkward bus ride

banana_box · 2012-08-08T19:54:28+00:00

Try to relax and just remember women take huge dumps (like you do), get diarhea (like you do), and have smelly vaginas. They are human. Do not put women on a pedalstal. What I usually do is try to smile when in the pressence of a HB, tho I get tired smiling often.

Di_Fuoco18 · 2012-08-08T19:37:53+00:00

Do you watch a lot of porn? If so, check out /r/NoFap and /r/pornfree This may not be the best answer, but I could be useful for you and help you look girls in the eye easier and not be afraid to look at them or nervous then they're around. Surely seddit may have better answers than mine, but this is just my advice. Hope it helps! Goodluck!!

SpinMyRiki · 2012-08-08T20:30:30+00:00

well, next time just look her in the eyes. you clearly need small steps so making eye contact is a task for you to work on.

looking in the eyes of a girl is an exciting thing!

if you managed that, try to NOT break the eye contact. you're the guy so you maintain. do you know how awesome holding eye contact feels like? it's a big rush and i'm sure for you absolutely mind blowing. now don't stare at her all the time, you have to of course look somewhere else once she lbreaks it off. but whenever you have eye contact with a girl, try to not look away!

try to figure out the fine balance between strong eye contact and creepy staring, which you should avoid obviously.

they won't hurt you for looking at them, just do it bro

NaughtyAudio · 2012-08-08T20:33:04+00:00

If you're talking to them. Look them in the eyes. What you're describing is "Approach Anxiety" (abbreviated as AA in forums), and it is the WAY more common than you think. Every person who isn't a complete ass hole has this. I've noticed a lot of people referring to a wonderful Wayne Gretzky quote today, so I'll go ahead and keep that ball rolling, or puck sliding, as Gretzky was a hockey player:

"You miss 100% of the shots you do not take."

Think of that when you're about to chicken out of talking to a girl, or do what I do and call yourself names until you talk to her.

LightVader · 2012-08-08T23:35:54+00:00

Simple. Make brief eye contact, and give a slight smirk. As most of us know, looking down is a sign of low confidence and typical beta behaviour. Just practice with everyone on the street. It won't happen overnight, but it will slowly become second nature the more you do it. Best wishes.

Title	Awkward bus ride
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Upvotes	3
Comments	12
Date	August 8, 2012 6:45 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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