Motherfuckin’ PUA Theillbehaviored here to shatter the limiting beliefs society has imposed on us; most of us heard about this at one point and I just want to reemphasize it: Being unapologetic is high value. When I change a trait about myself like this, I don’t just do it in pickup, I do it in everyday life and now this is the trait I am trying to internalize and do every day but its pretty difficult habit to break. We all grew up in a state of reaction and picked up various traits from external sources, some high value, some low, some completely irrelevant; it our jobs to break these negative traits and implement new enabling behaviors.

Being unapologetic is a tough one because I am used to apologizing, but you know what, this goes BEYOND apologizing, it has to do with entitlement and not asking permission, its about imposing your will on others, not domineering or being a douchebag, just being yourself and not caring whether you offend or otherwise. Apologizing is low value; this is YOUR fucking house, and life is the celebration of YOU. Breaking the trend

1) Whenever you get the urge to apologize laughing in replacement usually works - I discovered this one on my own. I was talking to a chick and fucked up, I spilled my drink on her. Instead of apologizing I started laughing at her (I really didn’t think this was funny at all, but I pretended to laugh and it was congruent), this turned out being a sweet emotional push-pull, first she was raged but eventually she started laughing too. It eventually became an inside joke.

2) STOP ASKING FOR PERMISSION - this ones tough. I was at the gym, pushing it to the fucking max and some dude had his speakers on a machine, I asked to move them, I shouldn’t of. If something is not that important, don’t ask out of consideration, just do it. Now, obviously there are going to be exceptions. Use commonsense.

3) Have conviction -this one is SO important people. A lot of these principles are inherently linked together. This has to do with having a strong reality and being certain.

Alright dudes, it’s been fun. Peace