I’ve made around 150 approaches since moving to my new city last year but only gotten laid twice. I approach in a respectful way and almost always get a good reaction, but have a lot of trouble with flaking after getting the number/IG.

Not to be a douche but I am also told I am attractive very often, and everyone in my social circle thinks I’m a player who gets a lot of girls. It’s frustrating living this double life where I’m the only one who knows I’m not nearly as successful as I apparently comes across. Especially as I really just want a loving connection with a woman who I am genuinely interested in and attracted to (not to be a douche again, but someone on my level of physical attractiveness, intelligent, and kind hearted).

I’ve let the realization of the gap between my efforts and my results kill the excitement that came with the first major steps of learning game. I don’t know what my problem is, so I’d appreciate any actionable feedback or criticisms. Thank you 🙏