Whenever I talk to guys, it always seems I am alpha and they seek rapport with me (I been in Marines for almost 5 years so this might have something to do with it), I started pondering why I do not get similer interactions with woman. I noticed that with males, the conversations seem to be a bit more freeflowing, but nothing severerely different.

Decided to buy a concealable audio recorder so I could map out some conversations and see what was going on (It was raining=no sets to sarge=bored), I recorded my first interaction with a guy, and I was firm, commical, and in control. I went and started approaching woman and after reviewing the audio files, it revealed... I stuttered at times, this was so shocking to me because

A) I don't feel nervous, I don't even get approach anxiety, why would I stutter? Unless i'm just uncomfortable on some unconscious level.

B) I never noticed myself stutter before in my life

I also noticed, when talking to females I didn't have as much certainty in my voice. Also, things I perceived in my head as funny, didn't really seem so when being watched from this third person perspective... it seemed like I come from a entertainer frame, or sometimes even beta.

So looks like I have some stuff to work on. It's good to know what to work on atleast now, I am attractive, and woman commonly call me 'hot' or something to that effect, so for someone who looks like me, to stutter or seem unsure probally makes my whole persona seem incongruent. Maybe thats why my flake ratio is SO high.

This really helped me find sticking points, I suggests people to do the same... especially if you don't have access to a wingman.