Broke confidence?🤔

katterskill-falls · 2021-03-13T14:24:05+00:00

PLEASE NO. I'm 50 and I make almost 2000/day. Now I feel I'm too old for women, even though I train like an Olympic athlete. There is a myth that older guys have sexual market value. Especially today. Especially if you are at that point with no experience. I have almost no experience with women.

Do you want a woman who wants you for you money? Nothing should really keep you from pursuing women. You could always find a reason or shortcoming not to do it. Women would much rather have a younger guy who shows potential and ambition.

Slab2001 · 2021-03-13T10:56:54+00:00

get your money up

PinkKushMaster · 2021-03-13T11:38:41+00:00

No money no honey. Just Get the bag first tbh

If you can mentally get past the fact that you are broke then more power to you. I would say if you can do that then sure have a little fun while you’re young. But don’t dont have ‘broke fun’ for too long. Earlier you get your shit together the better..after she leaves you (which she inevitably will unless you find some kind of sugar momma) you are going to be in an even worse position than when you started. Which is heartbroken and broke.

So do yourself a favor and get the money first.

WhiteMirrorSociety · 2021-03-13T12:09:11+00:00

You get a job first, after that if you are earning like a thousand or so then you can slowly find a girl you like cause overtime the girl gets frustrated if she's gonna keep paying for your meals and other things.

FeistyLemon7 · 2021-03-13T14:52:11+00:00

Um, no. And if you wait until you've got your S together, that will never happen because there will ALWAYS be something to "deal with"! Take it from a 'middle aged' person. If you have the confidence then try. Money isn't everything if you're a true gentleman going into something for the right reasons. Goodluck.

Boring-Damage3147 · 2021-03-13T16:25:16+00:00

Looks like you been watching too much YouTube or something. Get rid of the propaganda in your head, you don’t need a milli to get a girl, continue getting your shit together while doing your thing, Unless you want to be a “trick” ofc

Shadow__Account · 2021-03-13T17:07:38+00:00

Don't let it be your excuse not to take action! There will always be a next thing that you don't have in order yet. When you have money, you will have a pimple on your face and say to yourself I'll start dating next week, when the pimple is gone you will think, I will hit the gym first for 3 months, after you will think I will move to a better place first and in my new city or with my new home I will start dating. These are just ego excuses not to go out there and possibly fail or be successful and like some guy said, by the time you will feel confident enough with all these things you will have no skills because you didn't went out there and yo will still have to start at the same point in 10 years where you could have started today. Don't let your ego trick you, you are good enough as you are now and if for some reason some girls will reject you now because you have no money , first of all good riddance, who wants to be with someone like that anyway and secondly there are millions of more fish in the see... abundance over scarcity.

TacvaLoca · 2021-03-14T00:30:54+00:00

I have read some comments and, here's what I think: don't limit yourself of doing things you like or want, but also try to find a balance between both, relationships come and go but what you are now and will be in the future will never change, work on yourself and your progress but also let yourself do things you enjoy.

melancholy_coffee · 2021-03-13T14:31:20+00:00

Your thinking about this from the male perspective, we are literal and logical, we assess people as they are now. Women are different, they assess men on their potential, if your potential is greater than some guy who has plateud with his career and life. You will be the more attractive option.

This is why a guy can become attractive through changing his behaviors.

FairAnalyst · 2021-03-13T15:46:02+00:00

Most of the guys I know that are best with women don’t have much money. Yet they always find women who will house and feed and fuck them.

There was a guy named Willy who was with simplepickup who was essentially homeless but hooked up with hot girls constantly. Try finding their audio podcasts and finding this guy’s.

HarryPotterofRap · 2021-03-13T16:46:01+00:00

Your financial status should be a priority regardless. Women or not. But to answer your question, no, because if you chase women based on your finances then you’ll only find women who like you for your money.

magnetradio · 2021-03-14T06:53:05+00:00

Focus on self improvement. As you get older, your experience will make you better with women. You want to improve to give yourself an advantage, not to impress women. Read books on money and business. I suggest the book Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki. It's a major paradigm shifter.

Start working out if you don't. Start off getting into the regular habit of working out. On days you want to skip workouts, just drop the weight or do fewer reps. Do one exercise per day just to get into the habit of working out daily. As the years go by, working out will be like eating or brushing your teeth. You will make it part of your lifestyle.

Imagine working out over a 20-year period. You will be in amazing shape. Imagine starting a small business that allows you to quit your job where you're making six figures a year in a 20-year period, investing a huge chunk of your money, and owning your own home.

The more you improve yourself, the easier it is to attract women. Stop trying to get women to like you by trying to impress them with your words. Stop jumping through hoops for women. Learn how to get women to earn your time, energy, and attention. When you think on these terms, women will start chasing you. Why? Because she values you more over most of the men who approach her.

Title	Broke confidence?🤔
Author	Jintoad1970
Upvotes	8
Comments	29
Date	March 13, 2021 9:52 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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