Bros I need serious help

jefffffffff · 2016-03-20T05:39:13+00:00

Honestly man. This post is a bit embarrassing. You bring up the fact that youre attractive like 3-4 times. Sure it helps but it's meaningless without various other elements of gamr.. It seems like your blaming all of these girls for not paying attention to you. The only common trend in these Interactions is you.

Your first step is realising it's you that needs to change and grow..not the 100 women that have rejected you in the past few weeks.

bacon_coffee · 2016-03-20T11:19:13+00:00

You need serious help no kidding. Not reddit advice you do need a psychologist for this.

Please... I wish you well bro.

12Jawn · 2016-03-20T10:21:02+00:00

I used to experience a similar problem to you, However I was the shy unattractive one of my friendship group and would never get attention from the girls. In stead of being a bitch about it I decided to focus on being a gentleman, I've read countless lists and articles on what makes a gentleman. I have taken these traits and attributes on boards and now live by them, it's completely changed me for the better, from the way I dress, act and see others.

Instead of trying to attract girls attention I learnt to be completely comfortable with myself, to be patient and how to have a good time. I found that when I went out with the mindset of having a good time instead of trying to pick up girls, I was a lot more successful in my interactions with girls, and I would be noticed way more.

Perhaps work on yourself for a while, figure out who you are and embrace all you qualities, learn to be confident and work on being desirable, don't just just rely on being the cute shy one hoping to be noticed.

valorchata · 2016-03-20T20:58:54+00:00

Sometimes seeing professional help can really help your negative mindsets. Afterall, we're a bunch of average guys discussing how to get laid, and when it comes to extreme circumstances professional help may be involved. Maybe you're not as serious as we thought, but we don't really know that that much if previous advice aren't really solving your mindset issue. Personally, my mind had its cynical and optimistic thoughts, but over the years I've gradually trained my mind with tons of self help books. (especially Robin Sharma's books), dating book that really outshine others is MODELS by Mark Mason, I disagree with most other PUA ideals because it puts picking up women as the central of universe where as life is more to it, getting pussy is just a by-product of living a truly fulfilling life. I've also put my life together. Nowadays I always ask myself, is it worth my emotion and energy to hate something? answer is always a no, so I spend my time and energy doing and feeling things I love. (Mind you - this has been a 7 year process, and it's on-going and every year I look back, I see myself go thru tremendous transformation.)

Big_TX · 2016-03-20T22:31:59+00:00

They don't like you because you are depressed. I'm handsome and I use to have severe depression. Girls would look away from me then. They can since it.

(You may be too needy too.)

You should try and see a therapist. Also if like to recommend a book to you. It is called Letting Go: the Patheay of Surrender. The basic concept is that everyone is naturally happy but they have. Too much negative emotional baggage drag it then down and sailing them of vitality. You just have to let go of it and then you will become more happy. And it makes since. Have you noticed that all the naturally happy people alwayse seam immature? It's cuz they don't control their emotions so the end up letting them go eventualy. (You should control your emotions in some situations, then let them go a controlled appropriate situation. There is some woo woo stuff that sounds like complete BS. But also some of It I see repeatedly and I makes you wonder if it's a cowincidence or actually works like the book says. (The stuff on physical diseases I don't buy at all) I highly recommend you read the book.

My only advice for game is to have a guy who is somewhat decent watch you and give you input.

Good luck! Sersious don't do anything major or permanent like suicide or castrsion arrest until you turn 21 and have given it you all, (like gone out, attended events, gotten coaching.) is say never do it ever. But at least don't do it till you turn are over 21 promis yourself that. Everything changed for me once I turned 21.

Also you are handsome, you can go to foreign countries and girls will be much more intrested in you.

And if you are like 26 and tried everything, you can just get prostitutes. But you really don't need to do that.

Good luck! If you have any questions feel free to ask. I know how much being 18 can suck

Edit: also check out the Ultra Mind Solution. It's kinda the Yin to Letting Go: The Pathway of Surrender's Yang. people have very good success from both. And combining them should yield better results.

Also one guy had depression, got a spinal tap, that told him what he needed to take he took it and was compleatly fixed.

Title	Bros I need serious help
Author	CasualFrank
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	March 20, 2016 5:21 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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And if you are like 26 and tried everything, you can just get prostitutes. But you really don't need to do that.