Can you approach on the dance floor?

lifeunbalanced · 2020-01-12T20:48:45+00:00

I’m not an expert but this is what I do. I catch a girls glance and stare hard. Make sure she knows I’m interested but not creepy. If she doesn’t look away I make my way towards her. Make subtle eye and body contact if it’s too loud and eventually introduce myself and go from there.

ListeningWind · 2020-01-12T21:30:39+00:00

Practice doing a 'sexy smile' in the mirror. Now it's easy for this to come off creepy, hence the practice. You need to do like a subtle side smile, not a grin, and narrow your eyes a tiny bit at the same time.

When a girl on the dancefloor makes eye contact, throw her this smile and if she responds well, go on over.

LittlePandas101 · 2020-01-12T20:53:51+00:00

I agree with u/lifeunbalanced. look for eye contact, then approach that girl.

Shadow__Account · 2020-01-13T08:31:00+00:00

I was forced to make a lot of dance floor approaches on an rsd bootcamp and since i am an low energy laid back guy it is so far out of my comfort zone and character that i just don't anymore. It would be a cool thing to fix though.

All the approaches were basically almost totally non verbal , just walking up to girls pointing at them like "i choose you!" or just grabbing hands an spinning them around, just jumping in and dancing with them. I still cant believe how positive all the reactions were.

Before that i was always rationally thinking like, they can't hear me, what do i talk about, but 3 minutes into the first club on the bootcamp they pushed me inside a circle of girls that were dancing super wild. And 5 seconds later i was kissing one of the girls in the middle of the circle without having said a word.

So my takeaway is it's mostly non verbal game. But than again take it with a grain of salt because my club game is basically non existent and i was just bringing up old memories.

ken_34 · 2020-01-12T20:07:13+00:00

I struggle with this too. And I think I just realized why. Dance floor game is like Tinder in that it’s almost purely on your looks, although confidence plays a big role too. What I mean is, I have a lot of confidence in my ability to use attraction game when talking, but non verbally on a dance floor you are relying so heavily on your first impression. I tend to be shutdown much more swiftly in the dance floor. Theoretically it should be super easy but I think it takes more confidence that a cold approach in some ways.

tresslessone · 2020-01-13T03:33:24+00:00

Yes! The dance floor can be one of the easiest spots to pick up, as you don't have to do any smart talking. Try to catch eye contact and throw a cheeky, mischievous smile when you do. If they smile back, consider it an invitation to go over!

Title	Can you approach on the dance floor?
Author	TigerDank
Upvotes	11
Comments	13
Date	January 12, 2020 7:36 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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