Can't close once in the bedroom.

Pit_Sweat · 2014-01-27T00:45:59+00:00

More details would help but it sounds like you are charging head first into a last-minute resistance and then giving up because of it.

Firstly, you're going to have to get used to this happening a lot. Girls generally don't like to go from just meeting a guy to opening their legs in one fluid motion because no girl likes to feel like a slut. So sometimes they will put up a resistance just as a token of their dignity. But the fact that they invite you back to their place shows that they're probably interested in having sex with you.

Try a little push-pull technique. Push until you meet resistance, then pull back a little, but don't give up. Back off for a few minutes then try again. Don't put pressure on her to put out, though, and don't act all disappointed and shit when she does resist (that's my best guess on why you're getting kicked out). Show her that you are comfortable and having a good time regardless of whether you're having sex, and make sure she's comfortable too.

The obvious caveat is that if she's not budging at all, then you should stop. Always keep your cool and do not try to force anything if it's clear it's not happening that night.

a_nus · 2014-01-27T00:21:21+00:00

How do you initiate sex? If you're back at her place chances are high she knows what your objective is. So give us some details about how you try to go on about initiating.

Varboa · 2014-01-27T08:25:34+00:00

Lol hard to tell exactly what the problem is when you leave out the details regarding the actual shut down, but it sounds like your not Frame shifting properly. You need to take the frame of mind for her and mover her through the stages to sex instead of just jumping to it. You can do this through routines like the tickle game, but in an impromptu moment it helps to understand that girls need to get their mind in the sex mood first. Lol talk to her, gauge where she is then move to the romantic frame, and then to the sex frame. Make sure your kino is good, no girl wants to all of the sudden be bombarded by hands and dicks. I would start frame shifting before going back to one of y'alls places though, same with raising your kino.

2014-02-01T04:05:06+00:00

Your a FAGGOT IDIOT !!!!

Title	Can't close once in the bedroom.
Author	FreddyPsom
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	January 26, 2014 11:42 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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