Can’t stop thinking with my second head

EstablishmentIcy7559 · 2024-06-01T04:40:05+00:00

Well, since you have 2 heads just imagine you are the ogre magi and shoot your shot, stay dumb and you cant overthink.

Cheers bro, stay dumb.

shumasannin · 2024-06-01T08:38:41+00:00

There are only a few ways around it:

You reduce exposure. Go to or stay in places where you don't often see hot chicks (that goes for social media, too). By doing this, you won't get stimulated or triggered, which prevents you from having those emotional responses.
You change priorities. Do something more important in your life. Whether that's making money, pursuing a career, or reinventing yourself, psychologically, this shifts your brain's focus towards what you're working on and disregards anything that isn't aligned or related to those goals. So subconsciously, you won't get as much 'gravitational' pull from hot girls as before.
You make a move. This requires a lot of courage and the ability to handle rejections. If you see a woman you're attracted to, you go meet her. You don't need to get her number, take her home, etc. The big idea here is you want to be honest with yourself and do something about it. You might get rejected... you might get laid. Doesn't matter.

On a long enough timeline, you'll start to become abundant. And you'll have more power and space to choose your response.

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-06-01T04:52:11+00:00

There's a lot less going on here than you think.

You're just horny.

Calm down, go rub one out, and go approach women with confidence.

Worried-One2399 · 2024-06-01T19:41:36+00:00

Well here u can look @ it like this:

You don’t approach, and u don’t get the feedback that u subconsciously need to improve on the next “attractive woman” so you can’t grow.

WHO CARES, if u biff and mess up… that’s what I’ve shown myself. Messing up is OK, u have to come to terms with that.

You continue doing what you’ve always been doing and post more complaints on Reddit asking for help, yet ur not willing to help yourself by putting yourself in uncomfortable situations like u stated above.

COMFORT = STAGNATION

BEING UNCOMFORTABLE = GROWTH

I was in your shoes, would see a woman. I wanted so bad. Wouldn’t do anything, later hated myself bcz I “DIDNT DO ANYTHING”.

STOP ✋🏼

Set bars for yourself… what do u define as success?

Getting her phone # and flirting/bantering right?

Yeah, everyone wants to have the picture perfect scenario like that.

But guess WHAT? That picture perfect scenario won’t get “picture perfect” if u DONT make attempts.

Repetition equates to perfection!

Instead, tell yourself “I’m just going to ask her what her name is and introduce myself, maybe give her a compliment if I feel like the conversation goes smooth, I don’t need her phone # bcz it’ll make things awkward for her & it will just put a damper on situation”

So do just that… there’s no perfect way to approach someone without practice

Title	Can’t stop thinking with my second head
Author	Pristine-Barber-6325
Upvotes	8
Comments	6
Date	June 1, 2024 4:04 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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