This is obvious to many of you but getting hammered is my chronic demon for seduction. I kept myself limited to 2-3 drinks this weekend (and a few weeks before that) and the payoff was undeniable. Thinking back about my past behavior I am sickened by how many potential sexual encounters I ruined with my drunkenness. At last count I estimated that my number is in high 30's, and I have no doubt that it would be double or more if I had self control over the last few years. (I'm 27). I have had it together for a few weeks now, a combination of not getting drunk, not smoking cigarettes, and getting back into shape, and it is working.

My wild weekend started Friday night after I got a late jump and met a friend at 12:30. We bar hopped and kept ending up in weird scenes and sausage fests. One bar we walked into had such a bizarre crowd and vibe that we not only left because it was so uncomfortable, I used it as an opener to ask girls if they had been there and understood what was happening. No one had an explanation, but it turned out to be a good opener (relevant observation).

After a few unsuccessful approaches at a couple of bars we ended up at one of my go-to bars at about 1:15 in the morning. I don't like approaching in open water, so I sat at the bar in a high traffic spot. I have explained to my friends why this works, but they never seem to get it. They try to walk around the bar striking out while I sit at the bar flirting. I like sitting at the bar in a high traffic spot because it gives you a positional advantage when girls come up to buy drinks. You can flirt with them without an aggressive approach. You can also swivel around to talk to other girls and friends smoothly, without ending up standing in the middle of the bar awkwardly. This tactic works over and over again for me.

A cute girl came to the bar next to me for a drink and I was on my A-game. I asked her about the weird bar and she laughed and said the same thing happened to her a few weeks ago when she went in there. I noticed that she was wearing a Lance Armstrong bracelet and teased her about it. She hadn't seen the relevant South Park episode, but it let me utilize Kino right away. She responded positively and started quizzing me about my life, so I flirted without answering directly and made her guess answers to them. I never asked her name, and after a few minutes of talking she got impatient and finally blurted out her name and asked for mine. I told her (didn't make her guess that).

After talking to her for 10-15 minutes I knew it was a lock. All of the indicators were there. She was touching me,smiling, and clearly flirting. I asked her what she was doing when the bar closed, and she said going home. I asked her if she wanted to come home with me, and she smiled and agreed. I went in for the kiss, and at first she struggled to kiss back because she had a huge smile on her face. This is the best line you can use. "Do you want to come home with me?" It is assertive but not aggressive, and sexual but not explicit.

We rode in the back of the car while my two friends drove, holding hands and excitingly waiting to pounce each other. Once we got back to my place we hung out for a few minutes with my friend who was staying with me, then I asked her to come to bed. It was on. We had great chemistry and a fun night. It was a given that we are meeting again. We are getting sushi tonight.

I should add that I had prepared well. My place was clean and I live in a classy apartment complex that is well known in my city. Pretty much everyone I meet knows at least one person who lives or has lived in my complex, so there is a feeling of safety and familiarity when girls come there.

Saturday night I went out again, and this time my friend's girlfriend brought one of her friends. My other single friend who was staying with me was chasing her hard and buying drinks and giving her a lot of attention, and I played it more cool by teasing her occasionally and talking to other people. My friend has decent game, but like me he sometimes succeeds like a boss sometimes fails spectacularly. The girl was very cute (and 19) and into both of us. Both of us made out with her before leaving the bar. This doesn't appeal to everyone, but I am not jealous and I have no problem sharing girls with friends.

I didn't do any routines with her. I didn't show her a lot of attention and didn't buy any drinks for her (except a group shot for the other girl's birthday), but I was often the center of attention with stories and funny comments. I was the most sober and composed of the group, but I had a 2-3 drinks and shot and not being self-righteous about not getting as hammered as possible like they were. If they tried to buy me a shot I just said I was driving (which turned out to be true).

We went back to my friend's gf's house and drank some wine (my friend and the other girl more than me). At first it was my friend, the girl, and I. He whispered that he thought it wasn't going down, but I was getting sexual vibes from her and assured him it was.

I use recreational drugs, and I know it does not appeal to everyone, but I had some molly and put some bumps on the table. I offered some to the girl, and she was intrigued, but declined to try it. I didn't push it and kept the situation pressure-free. Then my friend's gf's roommate came home. She was really hot. Unfortunately when she walked in the door it was already 3:30 in the morning, it was my first time meeting her, she was totally sober, and I did not have much time to make a move. She drank a few sips of wine with us and did some molly with me, but then went to bed. Had I met her earlier I think I could have seduced her.

My friend started hooking up with other girl, and having no where to go and not wanting to cockblock him, I tried knocking on the roommate's door to her room. She had just went in there minutes before and the light was on and she was making noise. It was a longshot to see if I could use their hooking up as an excuse to stay in her room. She declined, but she was cool about it and came up with a solution- she came out to the living room and told my friend and the other girl (who were in the act of undressing each other) to go to her place (which I didn't realize was in the same complex). The girl thought it was a brilliant idea, and told both my friend and I to go with her.

She was without a doubt ready for action. It is relevant to note that when my friend, the sexy roommate, and myself were all doing bumps of molly, the girl did a bump of molly behind my back out of curiosity. It was the end of my stash and she did such a low dose that she probably did not feel much, but I'm guessing it had a psychological impact. Ecstasy has a reputation as a sex drug, and girls I have introduced it to often go wild and lose their inhibitions because they think that is supposed to happen. After this girl did a bump, which was 99% placebo, she was ready for fun. She was ready before that, and we had been with her all night, but that was the final push.

My friend and I walked the girl to her place and we were both making her laugh and and teasing her on the way over. As soon as we got inside she instructed both of us to follow her into her room.As soon as we got in there she said for both of us to get on her bed, and then she sat in between us. It was obvious what was happening and she was blatantly initiating it. I won't get into the details of the encounter, but we started off all together with foreplay and then my friend and took turns. She loved it and went into porn star mode.

My friend eventually passed out in the living room, and I had her to myself. She told me she wanted me as soon as she saw me and that I could call her anytime to fuck.

In the morning all 3 of us went to breakfast. Before we left she was walking around naked, we were all laughing and relaxed, and she was enjoying the attention we were giving her. The situation was kind of ridiculous because she was sexy as hell and I would have never guessed how she acted in the bedroom. At breakfast all 3 of us were hanging out like nothing happened. We dropped her off at her car and she said to call her. I will. I'm sure the white knights take up arms at these kind of stories, but girls like banging just as much as guys, and the way I see it its no different for a girl to bang two guys than for a guy to bang two girls. It is only weird if you make it weird.

TL;DR Don't get drunk. Quit smoking cigarettes. Sit in a high traffic spot at the bar. Once you know she is interested, ask her if she wants to go home with you. Kiss her when she agrees. If you are competing with friends, don't be jealous. Threesomes happen in real life. Sometimes girls who you would never expect to be wild in the bedroom are willing and excited to sleep with you and your friend. Just as guys often fantasize about being with two women, they often do the same about us. It is only weird if you make it weird.