Club dancefloor openers?

hausel12 · 2016-06-09T14:29:31+00:00

If I find a girl dancing without her friends I just ask her why she looks so sad. No matter if she actually looks sad or not.

Usually they try to convince you that they are not sad and they are instantly investing. Worked so far every time.

evilgenivs · 2016-06-09T17:50:36+00:00

I just do crazy RnB sexual moves ("rolling" your body), sometimes even a "gay" feminine looking move while pointing/waving at them. Add a wink maybe. I do get the "are you a dancer" a lot tho, so that helps.

Number closing in a club has never given me a positive outcome. I'm about to give this girl a call I was making out with last weekend. But I already know there is only 10% chance of actually getting to meet her again. I now know clubs are more of the "now or never" things. My logistics suck so it will never happen.

CentralValleyAsian · 2016-06-09T14:25:40+00:00

Keep in mind success is something you're there to achieve. Getting a number isn't successful if it doesn't lead anywhere. This is know as reactions vs. results.

From personal experience practicing this for years, there's a more heavy reliance on looks, something they don't really mention in any mainstream dance floor seduction guides. To improve your openings in general, at the minimum make sure your grooming is there, followed by working out and getting bigger.

Eye contact, eye contact, eye contact is key to a successful opener. Make eye contact with a girl, extend your hand out, and start dancing. This is especially great for Mexican-themed music.

Are you trying to get deeper into dance floor game? I can help you with more material if you're trying to get deeper.

Murfdigidy · 2016-06-09T13:55:21+00:00

Wave to her across the room and point to her shoes, and lip sync "I love your shoes" then give her a crazy ass wiggle dance move, like your being a goof ball and having tons of fun doing it.

cehmu · 2016-06-10T10:39:09+00:00

watch and learn, watch and learn:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FWHcLTdjr3Q

GoRedBad · 2016-06-10T13:26:55+00:00

To my ears, those two questions you ask are coming from a tentative position. You are asking permission because you aren't sure she will capitulate. Men who are used to female submission don't ask. They just do.

I'm not some womanising prodigy, but I just get on the dancefloor and strut my stuff, doing my best not to care who's looking at me or if I'm any good. I just dance as if I am alone at home, and it's irrelevant if I look a bit camp or goofy (which I probably do).

Women are not used to seeing a guy enjoying himself un-self-consciously, and will gravitate toward, or be receptive to, such a man and his advances. They aren't actually evaluating your skill at dancing, they are seeing if you are a fun person full of good emotions.

The other night I was in just this position, and though my intrusive ego popped up every couple of minutes to sound a needy alarm, I shut it down quickly and got back into the rhythm of the music. The girls couldn't take their eyes off me and kept rubbing up against me. In the middle of everything I surprised myself by spontaneously grabbing the hand of the girl opposite and spinning her around a couple of times, then into my arms for a closer dance. Not planned or calculated in any way, just going with the flow and staying in the moment.

If you're doing this, then anything you want to say or do will come out naturally. Deep down, your body and unconscious mind know how to be cool. Only the stories you have told yourself over your life time are holding you back.

Title	Club dancefloor openers?
Author	Ginormousglutes
Upvotes	8
Comments	14
Date	June 9, 2016 1:50 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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