clubs are not real life; when I say this I mean clubs are a very different place from day to day life, I've made out with people's moms, doctors, lawyers and one time even a teacher from my university and I can very safely say these things probably wouldn't have happened if I wasn't at the club. Now that the we've established that clubs are a different planet, we can also conclude that the game that works there is different.

The first thing to know is a lot of your game at a club is going to be non-verbal, most girls don't want to spend the whole night with some guy screaming in their ear. So you have to learn to approach in a way that requires minimal conversation, basically other than things like names and asking her to dance, you can discuss later. This means that your appearance is very important, now, I'm not talking about things like your height or your face because you can't really change those, I'm talking about simple things like the clothes you wear or the cologne you use. get a nice haircut, trim your beard, wear clothes that fit, all of these are things you can find with a simple Google search.

Here are some colognes that have gotten me compliments:

  1. Versace Eros
  2. Jean Paul Gaultier Scandal
  3. Issey Miyake L'eu D'Isseyl

Please don't buy Dior sauvage, every dude and his grandpa is wearing it.

Your approach is equally important, you need to be able to gauge which girls are open to being approached and which ones aren't, a good way to do this is via eye contact or just walking up to them. Remember a club is time sensitive so if she's not interested you wanna find out as soon as possible, also it's ok to be a little bit forward, you don't know these people so don't be shy. A good icebreaker/ screening statement that works for me is walking up to her and saying "I like the way you look", it sounds simple but it gets right to the point without coming off as too forward.

Don't get drunk; approaching girls when you're hammered is usually a train wreck, because you either look like a lightweight or an alcoholic, both of which are not particularly attractive. Balance your alcohol and know your limits. And while we're on the topic, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, STOP BUYING GIRLS DRINKS. I don't care if you're Elon Musk, "can I buy you a drink?" is not a good icebreaker, she's gonna take that drink and leave you looking like a dumbass.

Anyway these are just a few pointers I have, if anyone has any more advice I'd love to hear it.