i follow a classic three step strategy in which i call TECHy 1.) Talk, Energize, 2.) Comfort and 3.) Haul it home

1️⃣ date idea energetic and talkative - no serious physical contact

•coffee date

•festival/downtown walk and eat

•bar (but don't always use this, this will long term hinder you)

•hiking

2️⃣ date idea - different location more infamous on comfort but no serious physical contact

•comedy club

•holiday shopping together (most girls fucking love this shit + you'll be able to get all your presents girl approved)

•picnic?

•sit down restaurant

3️⃣ date idea - homey, inviting, physical

•dinner at my place and movie

•host a bbq with them and stay the night ;)

•baking pastries, video games and banging (bgb)

•smoke or club and spend night

4️⃣ optional - Your choice.

do something that you felt both of you resonated well with. Like were comedy clubs better than a hike? Go for cuddles and massages instead of long walks.

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