Coffee date

PUAgrey · 2016-02-13T12:37:04+00:00

If you can, sit next to a window where you can do some people watching. That way if there is ever a moment in the conversation you feel like you don't know what to say the people you see on the street will give you something to talk about so you can say "Hey look at them, what are they doing with all that shopping?"

prsndan · 2016-02-13T05:10:26+00:00

Personally I'd say coffee dates are all about chemistry. I remember my first date with some girl that i didn't really feel comftroble with. Thay was because we had no chemistry between us. So that coffee date was so awkward and it felt like a job interview than a fun date.

But if your date is someone that you can easily talk to anywhere then a coffee date is fun and you get to learn things about eachother. Afterall a coffee date is primarily there for conversation.

Don't try to plan everything out. See how things go and find out if you want a second date after.

SwagYoloJesus · 2016-02-13T07:28:07+00:00

Coffee dates get easier the more you do them. Get on Tinder, and arrange a couple. Think of them as necessary grinding for that epic gear: you'll familiarize yourself with common topics, you'll get a feel for where to go and what to do, how and what to say, what works and what doesn't, etc.

You should be dissecting every date in your head afterwards, coming up with witty comebacks and "I should have done this instead of this" stuff, which you can utilize during the following one, getting more confident each time.

Maybe you missed the perfect moment to kiss her, maybe you let her lead you through a crowd instead of leading her, maybe you told a story that made you look like an ass, whatever, reflect on everything you did and correct it the next time.

surf-dude · 2016-02-13T10:50:56+00:00

Oh man, I still remember my first date ever. Boy, was I nervous. First tip I would give is to do not expect anything. It is your first date, she will probably sense that you are nervous. Allow yourself to fail, after all there are a bilion more girls on this planet. Just try to have fun and get to know each other. Ask her questions and make sure to make eye contact. This is something I barely did in the beginning. Btw, I like your idea of walking through the park. It is always a good idea to switch vennues during a date.

2016-02-13T12:41:51+00:00

My preferred is quick coffee and try to get to the park ASAP but not when it is winter. In the winter you have to get to a nice open indoor space. I love the mall here that barely anyone goes too. A crowded mall would be shit but if you have the 3rd best mall around that no one bothers with it is perfect in winter.

Title	Coffee date
Author	starwars765
Upvotes	6
Comments	6
Date	February 13, 2016 4:46 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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