Cold Approach does it work?

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-08-06T07:24:25+00:00

This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.

Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?

As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.

Outside-Quarter-2866 · 2025-08-06T02:27:13+00:00

Yes, it works — I’ve been doing it for months, and it’s an essential skill for any man. But could you be more specific with your question? Why are you asking yourself that in the first place?

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-08-06T02:41:10+00:00

That's like asking: "Does tinder work? Does social circle game work? Does going to nightclubs work? Does meeting people in the workplace, gym or college class work? Does being introduced to someone by someone else work? Does social media apps game work? Does speed-dating work? Does going to parties or festivals work? Does meeting someone by pure chance work? Does any possible form of meeting someone imaginable work?"

I hope you understand the point i am making with this, which is that cold approach is like every other way of meeting someone, it’s just a doorway.

The “method” itself doesn’t guarantee anything; it’s the energy, timing, and the way you connect that determines if it goes anywhere regardless of which doorway you use to meet women.

As for conversion rates, you could meet the love of your life through a cold approach or have 500 approaches go nowhere, just like you could swipe a thousand times on Tinder and only one conversation feels real and leads somewhere.

It's useless to compare yourself to others, because some people just have more talent than others, not everyone will get the same results, much like not everyone will get the same results in dating apps or nightclubs. It all depends on which medium you feel more comfortable with and your skills in each medium.

Some guys can be really good at tinder and suck at cold approaching and vice versa. Other guys can suck at both tinder and cold approach and be really good at social circle game. So one man's results in a particular medium, isn't necessarily relevant at all to whether you will get similar results, maybe you get better results or worst.

The point is, cold approach isn’t magic or broken, it's not a trick or a trend that guarantees results, it’s just one more context where human connection either happens or it doesn’t, and that comes down to you, the moment, each particular woman you approach and circumstances, not the method. For some it works, for others it doesn't.

But like with everything you can improve your results if you actually study how to do cold approaches and put a lot of practice into it, much like you can improve your results if you study how to do online dating and so on with every other doorway to meet women.

anonyaccc9 · 2025-08-06T03:57:54+00:00

It’s worked for me I did it a lot when I was 17-19 I’m 21 now and haven’t done it in a while but it might have helped that I’m tall and good looking that I had success

burncushlikewood · 2025-08-06T04:26:19+00:00

Dude forget openers lol, it does work but you have to know how to do it right!

shlomobo · 2025-08-06T05:33:37+00:00

I think it‘s one of the best ways to meet women. It needs practice and you have to face your insecurities and anxieties. But you‘ll grow as fuck and become a magnet.

Title	Cold Approach does it work?
Author	Sea-Independence2881
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Date	August 6, 2025 2:11 AM UTC (11 months ago)
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