Cold approached for the first time today

Otherwise_Mail_960 · 2024-02-28T08:44:27+00:00

Bro don’t stress the main thing is you did it I’m same age as you never cold approached before. I think the strategy I’m going to go for is maintain eye contact smile if she smiles back then approach. I’m very shy but extroverted so I’m nervous as hell but your post has given me some confidence. Don’t focus on the location you should be proud you did it.

epimpstyle · 2024-02-28T14:12:43+00:00

I have the feeling that a beginner always has this special talent to put himself in the most difficult situations instead of making things easier.

Talking with two women is not an easy task, I don't know why you decided to start this way.

Of course CostCo is a good place, anywhere you meet a woman is a good place, it depends on you how you continue the conversation and have a good reason of why you are there, you do not want to give the impression that you are there with the only goal of meeting women, you need a valid reason (shopping, walking around, waiting for a friend).

What opener have you used (direct, indirect) ?

Ok_Spot7102 · 2024-02-28T16:48:36+00:00

If youre just starting cold approaching you should definitely start taking baby steps, but simply be consistent. Try doing 5 or 10 approaches in total a week. Simply get the hand of opening up a conversation. Be conscious that your first approaches will most likely be bad as anxiety will riddle you, be ok with that.

After youve done a fair few, focus on whatever direct or indirect approach of Game youd like to do. Key at fist is to build confidence.

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-02-28T17:44:12+00:00

You can meet women anywhere and there’s nothing wrong with approaching a women at Costco or a grocery store or any public place if you’re out and about and running errands at those places.

But if you’re just going to a Costco, wandering around looking for single women to approach for hours, that’s extremely weird and you’re not going to get good results at all, especially if you’re new to this. There are definitely way better places to practice cold approach and game where women will be way more receptive.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-02-28T22:27:22+00:00

you can hit on women anywhere at anytime as long as you have the social intelligence to know when a girl is indirectly telling you she is not interested. Women often do not communicate directly with men when it comes to dating, so they very rarely qill come out and directly say no, so, as long as you can tell when a girl is indirectly communicating she is not interested, there is nothing wrong with approaching women during the day in public places.

I don't like bars or nigh club, so all i do is daygame. I approach women in gyms, coffee shops, grocery stores, wherever I want really. If a woman is in a public space, you can hit on her. Just avoid hitting on women at work. Women say they don't want men to approach them in public spaces during the day, but that's because there are guys who can't take a hint. But if you take care of yourself and aren't socially awkward it's always game on.

This article discusses approaching how to approach women during the day anywhere:https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-direct-game?r=31tj3q&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-approach-women-indirect-game?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=android&r=31tj3q

Title	Cold approached for the first time today
Author	ZaazMarx1
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	February 28, 2024 5:32 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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