Confidence

Contango6969 · 2022-05-12T18:52:52+00:00

If you break down confidence into situational confidence and core confidence that’s more useful. You can gain situational confidence by just having experience and exposure. So build up the confidence to talk to girls and stuff that is very doable

Core confidence however has a nature/nurture component to it and most of the time when people are telling you how to boost your core confidence it’s BS and a waste of time. Get situational confidence in every area that matters to you and hopefully that translates to how you feel about yourself as a person. If it doesn’t you can still function and do what you want to do.

kiramdahanett · 2022-05-12T19:09:41+00:00

Yes , the cure is to " go out & try to get destroyed , literally let women/businesses treat you like an absolute trash , then results will come . "

there are multiple bullshit temporary fixes tho : drink some beer , take baby steps , hit the gym etc . none of them even comes close to harsh rejections from women , none.

rhofire · 2022-05-12T18:49:00+00:00

Is there a cure or a way to work around lack of self-esteem/confidence?

There's no work around that works long term but you can build your confidence.

What are you afraid of?

PatientAssociation62 · 2022-05-12T23:36:42+00:00

When I first started my confidence level on a scale of 1-10 was in the negative numbers somewhere about as low as whale shit. I started just by finding good material and learning some basics and getting that down pat. Now I am taking small steps towards approaching women and I'd say my confidence is about a 3 or 4 and slowly climbing.

They say competence is the cousin of confidence. Just learning and owning some basics has helped me immensely. Start with that.

66VALHALLA66 · 2022-05-12T18:31:44+00:00

Cure is sarms But In all honesty get on the workout grind that will boost your confidence tremendously same with quitting porn and masterbation

Kukantiz · 2022-05-12T19:20:34+00:00

Go accomplish some shit. Give yourself a reason to be confident

Wonderful-Rock741 · 2022-05-12T23:43:40+00:00

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Title	Confidence
Author	AThousandWayz
Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	May 12, 2022 6:23 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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