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[–]SwimComfortable7465 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
She probably just wants her cake on display and wants to eat it too
[–]Bhardwaj-littlesub 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If they're making you question Things, it's not good thinking about it.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
You are too desperate to lock her down into a commitment and that’s actually a turn off for women.
She should be the one more desperate to get a relationship not you because you are the guy.
You are the one who is offering her the most valuable thing while she is just giving you sex, you are offering your resources, your attention, your money, your time, your protection…
So why the hell are you so desperate to give her so much value?
Calm down. As long as you continue to have sex with her without labels or commitments just enjoy that. There is no need for labels or for commitments.
It just doesn’t make any sense that you want a commitment more than her when you are the one who is offering far more value. If she doesn’t want it for now let it be, just have sex with her.
Eventually she will ask for a commitment, so stop asking her about commitment, she should be the one asking first for commitment.
[–]skybluetaxi 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Exactly right! I’ve made this mistake before and never again.
[–]revente 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Probably she's just meeting with other men as well.
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Based on what you wrote, it sounds like she’s using you for a room to stay in. I don’t think she’s seriously into you. Again, this is based solely on the information you provided.
[–]321gumby 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would disconnect as much as you can. Be nice and hang out when she hits YOU up. You will get hurt if you try too hard and push for things. I just went threw this.
Or you could just handcuff her to your bed and feed her once in a while..
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