I've noticed that quite a few people are just negative, superficial, or manipulative af. You need to realize that i's not your fault, these people just happen to be human filth. It sounds harsh and yeah I do empathize with these people because any of us could be in their situation if we were raised that way, but for our purposes, it's not worth it to waste any energy on people who don't get with the program. You're literally a cult leader of your own reality. You improve your inner game, awareness, and SMV, and then the rest is on the other person if they will follow your advances. Once you broadcast your value and they agree with you that's it's valuable and they cherish it, welcome them with open arms, lead them and bring them up with you. If they don't agree with your value, boo they can get off the stage. Don't become a full-blown narcissist, but if you want the success, you need a bit of ego unfortunately. Just make sure you have the empathy to counter-balance having those cult vibes. The only exception is mentors and family. In this case, observing and tolerating a bit more is better because you learn more. Also, a healthy family isn't as harsh in terms of power dynamics and value giving. It's more like a mutual tolerance of each others' bullshit.

This is why approaching and improving yourself at the same time is important. You know you're a "10 in the making" and you know that you have options and that there are people who will see the value in yourself that you see.

From my own experience, I have the most confusing features. I don't fit a "type". I don't look white or arab. I'm just kind of there in terms of my face lmao. Average looking but unique. I viewed it as a curse because it's harder to find someone to mimic when you look different. I viewed it as a curse and would try to change myself as much as possible to look like someone else. But now, I'm starting to view what I have as a power. Like I'm literally out here paving my own path. So what if I don't match a type? I'll make my own, you feel me? Turn it into some mysterious shit. You get the point. Make do with what you have, maximize it, then you're the god of your reality and anyone who denies your right can fuck off. At a higher level, you probably want to reach financial freedom so this applies to everyone and you don't have to contradict yourself in some aspects of your life.