DAE remember the moment they stopped being an AFC?

TideNinja · 2010-12-21T10:43:35+00:00

I think a lot of the trouble that many Redditors face is having a social outlet that isn't electronic in nature. This great advice does nothing for the AF(R)C fresh out of the gaming scene who spends his evenings and weekends doing LAN parties. Not that there's anything WRONG with these things (I do them myself.. but I think most of the females I know actually have no idea that I'm a lazy PC gamer..), it's just that there's no opportunity to practice these techniques to the point of competence when it's all that you do.

seddition · 2010-12-21T16:59:58+00:00

I sort of had an epiphany right when I started dating my most recent girlfriend. I had been dating two others girls, and had hung out with the gf about four times. I had plans to hang out with her later in the night but my buddy invited me to a concert. I'm at the concert, I meet a hot girl from out of town with her little sister. Instant connection, they ask me to show them around. At the same time I got a text from another girl I had been dating asking to hang out. Had never in my life had three girls vying for my attention. Ended up making out with the girl from out of town and getting head in my car while my buddy entertained her little sis, ditched her, went and met up with the new gf, banged her, and then the next morning met the other girl for lunch and ended up fucking her that afternoon. Was the closest I've come to a hat trick to this day, and that's when I realized I wasn't a fucking chump anymore. I've been in and out of a relationship lately, but i've been killing it on my single weekends. However, I know slumps happen and when they do I always think back about that weekend and tell myself that if could pull that off knowing about 1/3 of what I know now, there is no reason to not be out there killing it every weekend.

redditwhatshouldido · 2010-12-21T12:03:35+00:00

I can't say that I'm not an AFC now. I think that I am now in the stage between AFC and PUA, it's like that: sometimes it clicks, I know every step I should take and I do it, but another time, when I'm not in the mood I step into AFC mode. I'm working now to stop changing the mode and remain PUA

But answering the question: I remember all the milestones I took, especially the first times I saw that girls are just expressing attraction to me, I don;t really remember these happening that much before reading the pua stuff. I think it happened some time but not like now.

frogma · 2010-12-21T14:39:55+00:00

I remember when I became confident. In high school I had always been pretty popular, but I was still insecure. On orientation day for college, I walked in and decided right then that I was gonna be a confident, talkative motherfucker. I sat down and started talking to the kid next to me, and proceeded to talk to just about everyone. I've kept the same attitude to this day. I don't know how it worked, but everything clicked for me that day.

squigs · 2010-12-21T20:35:36+00:00

For me it was meeting a crazy really extrovert girl. She'd just go up to complete strangers, talk to them and become friends. Absolutely zero concept of approach anxiety. It simply hadn't occurred to me before I met her that you could do that.

Title	DAE remember the moment they stopped being an AFC?
Author	griffin3141
Upvotes	4
Comments	6
Date	December 21, 2010 4:40 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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