Dancing

tall_geek · 2012-09-01T19:33:16+00:00

Take a ballroom dance class. They will teach you about the rhythm, how to lead, how to move your body etc. Once you learn how to swing it on the dance floor, other girls will notice and even grab your ass while you're dancing with them :)

floor-pi · 2012-09-01T19:16:41+00:00

I keep hearing pua guys (Style, Mystery I think) saying that dancing is bad to do unless you're really exceptional, but this just doesnt jive with what ive seen. In my city, it's an essential feature of the nightlife, I can't do it to even a poor level of skill and I wish I could, so I'll be watching this thread with interest. I mean, it's even a feature of nearly every family celebration, it's surely a skill that would be good for anyone to learn...?

redkombucha · 2012-09-01T22:15:02+00:00

Dance the way you like on the music you like.

And, this can sounds stupid, but dance on your own, when you are alone.

It works for me.

clactus · 2012-09-02T00:55:38+00:00

i don't know about your situation - but in my experience it's best to just go for it! anyone who has the confidence to get into it may look like an idiot but they look way less beta then the guys hovering around the edges nervously peering over at the dance floor hoping it would all just stop and that somehow they will be able to get away with just standing still until someone comes up to you - you have to ask a girl if she wants to dance before you can get some kino going - you have to take the initiative - if you don't then nothing's gonna happen. if you feel a little tense have a bit to drink first and then have a go at a few simple moves and just enjoy yourself it helps a lot with getting rid of inhibition and makes you WAY more outcome independent because you're dancing for fun rather than dancing so you can get laid. that's important ENJOY the dancing rather than seeing it as a tool or an excuse to feel up a girl in a club if you aren't enjoying yourself even a little bit you're doing it wrong - you don't go to clubs to feel shit about yourself do you?! you go to have fun! getting laid is secondary and will come if you're confident know how to enjoy yourself and just have a good time

TL;DR: just go for it - if that's not an option have something to drink first and then go for it - and most importantly ENJOY the dancing as much as possible because it comes across if you're hating it and is just really awkward

argendev · 2012-09-02T01:57:11+00:00

Listen to some Latin music, like salsa or cumbia to get a feel for rhythm. Its insane how easily you can dance to that music and become accustomed to dancing.

MasterGolbez · 2012-09-02T00:57:39+00:00

Take dance classes.

Practice dancing alone.

Get friends who dance.

Have a beer or three.

Stop fucking caring.

spaceghost5 · 2012-09-02T01:59:56+00:00

Learn how to 2 step on beat it's the most basic dance move there is. Key is to look like you are having fun and they will want to have fun with you.

Also if you know how to Dougie you will instantly become the man when the song comes on.

If you are to learn a style of dance learn salsa it's the best to lean cause u can apply it to almost any genre

reigorius · 2012-09-02T02:38:38+00:00

The deal about dancing is to have fun.

Have FUN.

That's all there is to it. If you dance like you are having the time of your life, girls WILL notice this and WILL be interested in you. You will be confident in their eyes and they want to know more about you. If you hate dancing, don't do it, find something else. Or try salsa lessons.

Just dance, and dance for yourself. If you think of nothing but the music, do NOT be bothered with thoughts "Owh, I may look silly, what will they think about me?". Fuck that. Not worth it, just have FUN. Feel the music through your body and your body will do the rest.

Can't state it often enough, having true fun while doing something you like/love equals to irresistible attraction.

jap-a-negro · 2012-09-02T02:52:56+00:00

No one has actually given u advice on how to dance yet so here is my very small contribution: Girls where I'm from are usually expected to grind by doing a quick circle with her hips and dropping it to the beat.

Sometimes when she's a little more frisky she will bend down, touch the floor with her hands, raise her leg for u to grab and put around ur waist as she grinds. That particular move happens on occasion.

You are usually expected to do the circle/hip-drop thing. Haha

Title	Dancing
Author	problemdog642
Upvotes	5
Comments	12
Date	September 1, 2012 6:17 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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