Anyone have a list of dating apps that can be actually effective for men? Let me explain; in most dating apps, men have no chance unless they are markedly physically attractive, and even then there are algorithms, messaging rules, and competition to be considered.

Is there an app where men can more easily message a woman while also limiting the problems of competition?

Unless you're markedly attractive and have hit the algorithms correctly, Okcupid and Tinder are absolute garbage imo, and do not maximize opportunities even in best case scenarios. POF is a cesspool with unmediated access, and i don't want anything to do with these apps which basically give women the privilege, if you get what i mean.

I'm not sponsoring them or anything, but Wooplus seems like a promising app to use because it's marketed towards "thicker" women, which might imply more self-esteem issues in their user base, which may be linked to higher chances of success for men. And if you pay for gold you can message any girl in the app (bypassing matching), which most men won't be able to do in this app without paying, as you also have to match to send a msg. I'm starting to think i should pay, but maybe there is a similar app out there, but only better?