Dating apps / Ghosting / Text game

Fuzzy-Bottle-4138 · 2024-02-05T01:05:31+00:00

Yes, for the millionth time, this is all just a numbers game. If your goal is to have the most success on the apps you need to be using multiple apps at once and swiping as much as possible. Yes, if you pay for the apps you will have an advantage with the algorithm and the ability to swipe way more than people with the free versions. If you live in a large city with millions of people it will be way easier than living in bumblefuck. It’s all numbers and volume.

And girls have so many options on the apps. They favor women. They’re 80% men and 20% women. It’s information overload. You can see 100 different guys in 5 minutes so they’re forced to be picky as hell. And many women don’t take them that seriously and are just looking for validation. It’s just fun for a lot of people.

So your goal is to just get as many matches as humanly possible and then just filter women out from there. It’s like a massive sales funnel. Matches are like leads. You can generally tell in the first couple of messages if the woman is serious and actually into you or if she doesn’t care that much. And if women are not being that responsive and being cold and dry you need to just move onto the next one. If they’re interested you need to be trying to get them on dates ASAP, often within a few messages. You don’t need to waste time having conversations. That’s what the date is for. And you need to not take the apps too seriously and be able to move on quickly.

TRTGymBro · 2024-02-05T11:56:48+00:00

Well, first of all make sure that you spend at least three weeks talking to her on the apps. Begin conversations with "wyd", "how is your day going". After you talk about the weather, ask her what she does for a living, where she is from, what she's studying and what her hobbies are.

By week three you are probably going to know most of her life story. Great! Now, it's time for you to start thinking about asking her out on a date. Remember, women on apps have many men vying for their attention and are very busy with other stuff. So you always ask in this specific way:

"Hey, how is your day going? What are you up to this weekend? Well, if you have nothing going on, maybe you and I can grab an ice cream or something else if you want".

Now you have to wait for her to reply and see if the time is good for her and if she likes ice cream. If you had done your homework you should already know what she likes and select that specific activity or food. If she says she may be busy this weekend, tell her "not a problem at all. Are you open next weekend or the weekend after that?"

Keep going until you find a weekend that she is free. Let's say the date is for a week from now. Now this is very important: KEEP TEXTING HER EVERY SINGLE DAY CHECKING IF THE DATE IS STILL ON. You don't want her to forget about you once you have set up the date, because if she doesn't hear from you constantly, she will immediately forget you exist and will stumble on some Chad's dick and it's game over.

letsgetwizzyy · 2024-02-05T01:13:26+00:00

Well, to optimize the amount of matches you convert to dates, I would suggest having a direct opener. Like you said, they are talking to tons of dudes at once, and you can't be another guy just asking them random insignificant stuff. Be bold and have a direct opener. Then, assuming she is complying, after 1-3 messages you can ask her what her availability is to go on a date. If she is interested, she will give it to you, anything else is a literal no and you should move on to the next girl.

You should not be having long drawn out conversations with women on dating apps. They are constantly overwhelmed with attention and have an unreasonable amount of options. When she matches with you, her mind has already been made up. She either categorizes you into the date category or free attention category. It may be hard to believe but there are guys who get women to agree to go on dates with them after 1-3 messages, it can be you if you just understand that no amount of texting is going to make her like you more.

Also, don't take rejection or ghosting personally, lots of women on these apps just want free attention and have no intention of going on dates with anyone. It's just part of the game.

This article discusses the best way to go about converting your matches to dates: https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-get-dates-on-dating-apps-a?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web

bennettca3 · 2024-02-05T03:09:29+00:00

I like to open with me and you. Sitting on a porch. Laughing at our grand children. Am I psychic or crazy? What type of guy you like?

Miguell7 · 2024-02-05T06:16:48+00:00

The key is to start moving it to a date asap, but not as the first msg.

666rueyov · 2024-02-05T14:25:10+00:00

My strategy is to avoid pinging them too much till Thursday, maybe a message or two by keeping the conversation light and chill. Then after I'm done working on Thursday, I ping to ask them out for a date on the weekend.

Text game is pointless imo, no point putting effort in texts when it's not going to translate in person. I keep it simple in text and save the rizz for the actual date

Title	Dating apps / Ghosting / Text game
Author	daring_innovator
Upvotes	8
Comments	8
Date	February 5, 2024 12:39 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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