I'm by no means a PUA and am generally an AFC. Trying to turn things around by reading up on the forums and books and all. I have found some very effective kino which brings a smile to woman's face. Now if I can just get the rest of the date figured out.

Here's my method:

When I park my vehicle I turn to her and tell her "I'll get your door". That usually brings a surprised smile and I haven't been turned down for that one yet.

When I open her door I don't back up with the door but stand to the side. I guess you could say I'm blocking the exit, but I hold my hand out for hers. So far, they've always taken it.

Once out of the truck I hold my elbow out and say "May I?" Again, so far, big smiles and they put their arm thru mine.

When crossing a street or the thruways of the parking lot. I shift quickly saying "Give me your hand while we cross" and I take it. Once crossed I go back to the arm thru the arm thing.

It works for me and is quite effective and they do it with a smile on their face.