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[–]Key-Willingness-2223 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ok, so first of all. It’s very possible that the women you’re with the “shitty dates” with “overweight unattractive feminists” can sense your resentment or lack of attraction to them and that’s a part of what’s fucking up your results.
In terms of the rest, yes being in good shape helps, yes being attractive helps, yes having money helps, and yes social skills of game helps
But all of those can be worked on, so either focus on levelling up, or just completely give up.
Because you’re right. Women don’t settle for guys they don’t see as high quality, so either become that, or accept that you’re destined for failure.
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[–]Key-Willingness-2223 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Ok, so a few quick comments
1) don’t go to the gym for girls. Go for yourself, go to be healthy, strong and to prolong your life. You never know what’s going to happen in life, so extra cardio and strength is always useful 2) if you don’t like bars and clubs, don’t go to them. There’s 10000000000 other places to meet people, from dungeons and dragons meet ups, to hiking groups and everything in between
3) you called yourself autistic, so I’m assuming that means you’re logical. So level up your social skills by recording data and adjusting course Figure out what exactly makes you nervous, what exactly makes you seem weird, and address them, one by one.
Life isn’t a sprint, it’s a marathon.
Don’t give up and put the work in now, and you’ll be shocked how incredible your life could be in 10/15/20 years
I have no idea how old you are, but I’m assuming sub 30 based on how you wrote your post, so just imagine how big a difference in any domain you could achieve by 35/40, when you hit your peak
4) if you want hookers, then you do you mate, but that’s just the sex side of things, that’s not the same as legacy, it’s not the same as being loved and respected, it’s not the same as having kids and a family etc
So it’s all on you bro, what do you want your life to be when you look back at it? And what’s the worst that can happen from trying?
[–]YSLMangoManiac 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I feel you man I’m high functioning on the spectrum and it’s difficult there’s no denying that but take it from me it’s not impossible, I’m living proof of it. I can’t give you specific advice but I find that working out helps as you look physically attractive and it helps me feel mentally stable. Something I’ve noticed is that my ability to attract and sleep with women at a given time is determined by how mentally stable I feel at that moment so I’d highly recommend working on it
[–]CompetitionFair7686 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think you are right. Autistic people really seem to struggle the most in this area.
[–]Imposible-dump 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago* (3 children) | Copy Link
It seems like you need to take a break from dating and find somewhere else to focus your energy. No one wants someone that reeks of desperation, why are you spending so much time and money on women you find repulsive ? That is nonsensical.
You have no concept on what dating is like for women at all, ranting about how “easy” they you women have is just juvenile and will make you more angry and resentful.
The important thing is to stop letting rejection wound your ego so much and don’t take it to heart. If you someone is disrespecting you move on and don’t waste your time with them. There are bad people of both genders
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[–]Imposible-dump 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You need to de centre women from your life, a relationship or sex will not solve your problems and make you happy. You are putting women on a pedestal and that is what’s causing your failure. Why do you need a women at all when there are so many more pressing issues in your life, stop focusing on being sexless.
You should see rejection as “we just aren’t compatible, oh well onto the next” instead of some terrible life shattering event. Once you increase yourself esteem you’ll be able to brush off rejection
My advice would be to fix your life so you can become the person who someone would want to date. Meaning make some friends, go to therapy, switch careers, go to the gym etc
[–]atomant88 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lol no
[–]5_7pickup -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Not true at all. I’ve known mildly autistic guys who pull alot. Mild autism can be advantageous for game.
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[–]5_7pickup -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
The inability to register certain emotions can be advantageous in game. Emotions such as shame, embarrassment, regret. You can approach a group of 10 girls and get blown out without being phased. Many PUAs, myself included, aspire to reach that level of zen/inner game.
[+]Jars_fuckpuppy1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]5_7pickup -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Expect im not that socially retarded and can very clearly tell when women don't like me and it just brings down my mood even more
[–]Jars_fuckpuppy1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I said I'm not that socially retarded, clearly you don't understand autism at all. Just because I can sense when I make people awkward that doesn't mean I can have good conversation with people without having problems.
[–]Relevant_Ad_9242 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Okay so, I’m sorry about your autism and I relate to your frustration however it’s worth mentioning
If you had to risk going through the hellish agony of an unwanted pregnancy and make the critical decision between a guilt ridden abortion or a child you never even wanted, all because you got seduced by some random pompous jackass who never shows his face again, you’d be hella picky too.
Just some food for thought
[–]DontCallMeTopher -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
It’s a cold competitive dog eat dog world out there, shit isn’t fair and nature is brutal. You’re a guy so the world won’t give a fuck about your problems and most guys won’t either because with an attitude like that you’re just one less man to compete with. Quit crying on the internet and get rich.
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[–]DontCallMeTopher 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Just skimmed your post history out of curiosity and now I feel empathy for you and regret that I worded the last part of my original comment poorly. You’ve still got time, good luck out there.
[–]DontCallMeTopher 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
S’all good man, I didn’t mean it as a personal attack. I apply everything I initially said to myself as well, it’s hard out there for guys, we just gotta grind and get that cash
[–]DontCallMeTopher 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Same here
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