When is it appropriate to ask a woman out?

Virtual_Judgment7147 · 2022-10-20T13:18:54+00:00

I don’t have much to go on here, since you don’t like cold approach, and I don’t know what’s the situation with the person or people you are interested in?

I’ll just assume that there is someone you are talking to or about to start having conversations with.

There isn’t such thing as an appropriate time or window. Like honestly it all depends on the circumstances and the interactions you have with this woman, and asking out in different ways and times can end up in so many ways lmao.

Honestly if you want a rule as such, then this is how I think about it, as a checklist.

Have you established who you are to the person you are interested in?
Have you had a few conversations that are flirty and/or isn’t superficial?

If you have achieved these two things than it can honestly be prime time to ask them out. Also if you are asking this question in terms of avoiding rejection, sorry man it’s part of the game.

But take rejection for what it is, it’s honestly a nice way to end things short, build resilience, become stronger and move onto the next girl, improving your approach continuously until you strike gold.

Don’t think too deeply about this, just go and ask them out.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-10-20T13:17:20+00:00

Asking a woman out can be very appropriate if she is interested, can be very weird if she is not. Without cold approach being an option, as u expand ur social circle and do some warm meetups, see who gravitates or kinda lingers around you, it's probably a safe bet to ask out someone who enjoys ur presence.

Delicious_Ad_1853 · 2022-10-20T13:31:17+00:00

It's pretty much always appropriate to ask someone out. It's merely an invitation, after all.

What's creepy is when you try to hide your interest for weeks and months, waiting for "the right moment" or whatever. She pretty much always sees through your charade and gets uncomfortable every time you badly flirt while pretending you're not flirting.

MatthewCaliforniaa · 2022-10-20T16:52:15+00:00

Just don’t do it when she’s jogging

Chad_Thundermember · 2022-10-20T18:24:19+00:00

If you don't cold approach how do you get dates?

Are you telling me that your social circle is so amazingly vast that you can pluck out a woman any time in that social circle?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-10-20T18:47:14+00:00

When you have been talking with her and she seems to enjoy the interaction.

Title	When is it appropriate to ask a woman out?
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Date	October 20, 2022 1:03 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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