Why is it that I interact with older women typically very well and am more confident around them?

TrashBagSam · 2022-10-17T23:09:36+00:00

It could be that older woman are usually more confident (true confidence, not the type that comes from men hitting on you), and they’re more secure in themselves (less insecure), and there’s just genuinely more you can talk about with an older woman vs the average younger woman. Key word, in general

SyreksDungeon · 2022-10-18T04:47:29+00:00

I feel like getting to that "im the shit" state of mind is really EASY when there's reciprocation and the other person is accessible. An older woman has more in mind what they want. If they want you they will behave open and it's going to be easier for you to be confident. Older woman are more mature, have less options and a younger man being interested in her is really flattering for them, and turns them on.

A younger girl will put barriers when talking to her. She has more options, therefore if you don't compete with her other options or the people she is used to being approached by, she will put a barrier up. Younger women are more immature in the sense that for them having sex means getting used or means being inferior to you, when it should really be mutual. So they will put more barriers while speaking to them, you'll have to get through more obstacles than with older women.

Aerial_penguin · 2022-10-17T19:43:56+00:00

You aren't sexually attracted to older Women therfore you don't feel pressure to act a certain way.

Zealousideal_Fan3409 · 2022-10-17T22:06:39+00:00

You don't feel the need to impress them so you're overthinking less and are more your self

didled · 2022-10-17T22:34:45+00:00

They make you feel like everything’s gonna be okay just like mommy

Positive-Ad-1859 · 2022-10-18T01:45:13+00:00

Because older women don't usually play stupid games like younger women do

inline6throwaway · 2022-10-17T23:35:24+00:00

A combination of what others have said here about you being more comfortable in your own skin around older women, and older women can be easier to deal with, nicer, more likely to call you hon lol, etc

Trooth_Sayer216 · 2022-10-17T22:52:40+00:00

Because you dont feel like you have your skin(ego) in the game

No-Historian-6391 · 2022-10-18T02:54:59+00:00

You care less. No pressure.

Abhi110603 · 2022-10-18T14:36:48+00:00

Because older women are mature enough and does not play any bullshit games. Whereas younger women are more flakey and older woman are not. Also older women are more open minded and more confident in themselves. We're you talking to an attractive older women when you figured this thing out??

Fit_Commercial_3786 · 2022-10-18T01:55:45+00:00

B/c maybe you ARE sexually attracted to them

kapnkrunch74 · 2022-10-18T11:32:10+00:00

Older women are more mature as people and well mannered, so they're willing to give u the time of day and treat u like a human being. Whereas younger girls (not all) are usually more immature and full of themselves so they make conversation feel like climbing mt Everest and may even think you're not worth talking to. Not that I'm interested in old women or trying to make them attracted to me, but I've noticed that when I'm talking to an old woman, whether it be at an event or as a customer, I'm able to have a great conversation and they enjoy talking to me. I feel like I'm a black and white movie actor they enjoyed watching growing up. I'm entertaining and they enjoy talking to me. Then I think to myself "if I were able to have conversations like this with girls I'm interested in, they'd flock to me. Why dont I do this with them?". Then I remember that I cant even start a conversation with them cuz when I try to talk to them, they just give me lame 1 word answers or just turn the conversation into a dead end

cryptosis420 · 2022-10-17T23:36:54+00:00

Cuz your not sexually attracted to them so you don't have your ego in the way of the conversation.

thecatgodcometh · 2022-10-18T11:49:10+00:00

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collegesarger · 2022-10-18T13:19:53+00:00

Are we the same person?

zed_sin · 2022-10-18T13:27:08+00:00

It's a buffer. Older women tend to be more accepting of younger mens approach due to lesser options. Hence they start to value and indulge in other things like intelligence and conversation skills more.

And you don't put them on a pedestal in your mind.

The_Advocates_Devil_ · 2022-10-18T13:37:18+00:00

"Older women" is a phrase that on average usually means they are women that are taken and not as attractive as women younger than you or the same age as you.

I have been in this boat where I ask these questions only to peal the layers of the onion back to realize its because younger women are typically more attractive, fertile, and more difficult to approach.

JMKraft · 2022-10-18T13:39:48+00:00

They have more developed social skills, and a stronger sense of themselves and what they want. It just gets better up until their 40s (unless their personality has meanwhile been destroyed by a life event)

TommyGavin39 · 2022-10-18T13:43:10+00:00

I find that older women are more experienced and know what they want. Granted mine is only 3 years older than me but she knew what she wanted in a person. Fortunately I fit the build. Most of the time they're more laid back too.

MatthewCaliforniaa · 2022-10-18T16:14:30+00:00

You don’t want anything from the older women. There is no pressure because there is no possibility of sex because usually they are taken or your just not interested because there older

tonyferguson2021 · 2022-10-19T02:43:02+00:00

I think cos younger women are more shy, we pick up on that and it makes it seem harder, but it’s just different.
also, if you’re an older ish guy attracted to young women, that also has certain bullshit social taboos associated

Lavistraza · 2022-10-19T21:38:46+00:00

I'm not sure but could it be your experience with younger girls in school and how they treated you? I had some bullying from girls back in high school and the memory stayed a bit subconsciously over the years but I've EFT it out.

H0lley1 · 2022-10-26T21:30:52+00:00

We can agree to disagree

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