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[–]janusz_z_rivii 53 points54 points55 points 3 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Still, my mother is not above me but she has my utmost respect.
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[–]dud230 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Then u realised that u have to work hard to compensate the ugly looks such as being funny, charismatic, rich etc just to get respected from women.
[–]raatdigedi 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Always working hard to reach my full potential
[–]punittt 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I rather be with someone ugly and fun than someone good looking but boring.
[–]Unusual-Proceedure 10 points11 points12 points 3 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Well. Some women reply late because they have to work and do things other than talking to you. I appreciate it when they still reply even after 6 hours. "I'm with you now, lol. I was buying the groceries... Anyway, yeah I'd like to hang out with you... That'll be fun"
Don't be so strict about it. Give them the chance to breathe, dude. Lol
But if she never return the same energy, ever, then yeah, don't waste your time chasing them lazy asses.
[–]raatdigedi 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
If someone's replying to you after 10 hours then they aren't busy
They are simply not interested in talking to you
[–]Unusual-Proceedure 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Not in my personal experience. We were together for 4 wonderful years.
[–]raatdigedi 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agree with the later part of you comment
Same energy is also important
[–]NoFap_FV 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Honestly, I used to believe this until I saw it, multiple times... You know the "perks" of being friendzones repeatedly, you end up seeing the other side behavior, if she's interested they'll reply almost right away, if they're not, they'll leave the phone on the table as if it was a newspaper from three days ago. So yeah, maybe 20% are truly busy but the rest... Interest moves oceans...
[–]FuzzyBlanketThrow 18 points19 points20 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Never let a man disrespect you either.
[–]priyaahnathan 4 points5 points6 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Was gonna say that
[–]yug_rana-_- 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This..
[–]Repulsive-Fee393 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I completely disagree, my mothers lied to the police to have me arrested twice, she lied to her friends and family to make me look like a psycho and gain sympathy, she cut up my drivers licence in a fit of rage. She convinced me my dad was evil then I actually got to know him, he’s been my best friend ever since. She argues and tries to one up on my wife constantly. She made me the family donkey responsible for everything but with no authority or final say on anything (slave) she provokes us physically and verbally and when we react we become the bad guys and she plays victim, (which she always conveniently forgets that she initiates) my stories are endless, so in conclusion no, absolutely not, my mother is not above me, she’s dragged me down to her level after years of physical and psychological abuse. I’d say we’re about even.
[–]paddywacknack 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
He obviously didnt mean abusive women like your mom.
Please go to therapy.
[–]raatdigedi -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm sorry to hear about that. I've seen cases like this but I think these are very rare cases. Mothers regardless of any species protect their offsprings.
Strength to you bro
[–]NoPut1443 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sorry to hear that. I personally know someone like that and unfortunately such people are so toxic they can destroy families and drag you down if you don’t wake up and let them go out of your life. Be strong and don’t let toxic people rule your life. Get away far away from such toxic people.
[–]Repulsive-Fee393 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Amen
[–]epimpstyle 7 points8 points9 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I still believe that your post is a joke... Is a joke, isn't it ?
[–]Visual-Garage-1365 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Don't talk to my mom
[–]Visual-Garage-1365 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Don't talk to anyone really
[–]Visual-Garage-1365 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Don't have friends
[–]Thatoneguy7432 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yep unresponsive people get ghosted immediately. Everyone should have that mind set. If you get on read the first message and you maybe only get a one word response or none at all, then she ain't the one chief.
[+]D3vi1b0y2 points 3 years ago [recovered] (9 children) | Copy Link
[–]raatdigedi -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
My mother has my respect but her opinion is invalid end of discussion.
As far as chasing goes I don't chase but I also don't make women chase. I don't play games. She wants to communicate she has the option if I'm making all the moves it's one sided. I don't like one-sided game's. If I'm not a priority I'm not going to try competing to become priority. The harder the chase the less worth it it is in the end.
It's equality or nothing no negotiating on this for either side if you want a happy relationship. No games should be played and communication is key to all relationships.
[+]D3vi1b0y2 points 3 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]raatdigedi -4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've had women chase me before no big deal. You don't have to be top 1% in the world just her world is what matters.
It's not an impossible achievement or anything. Women chase so do men but you won't have a good relationship in this situation if one is dominating the other. I'm not into dominating people or being dominated.
[–]D3vi1b0y1 point 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I'm not bad looking I've been compared to Ashton Kutcher sometimes and other times to Daniel Radcliffe. I work out to a certain point if I put effort I could get built but I like my body size and don't like big muscles.
IQ was graded over 146 when I was in highschool I also have talent in multiple fields. This doesn't mean anything though to women if you're not Elon musk they don't care what the numbers say. Also if you admit it many don't believe you even if it's true (I say it as a psychological test to gauge a person not to show off it's my own test)
Chicks actually like the nerd after highschool I started seeing how much many prefer the nerd.
I'm just nice, respectful, loyal, honest, I treat them with respect. I don't let them walk all over me but I don't treat them like garbage. Many like that. I'm also the serious type.
I'm not perfect though and I've screwed up before. who hasn't?
Never pretend to be someone you're not be you. That never works for anyone being someone else.
[–]007deku 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don't need to be at the top to get women to chase you. The top 1% just can have any quality they want at any givin time and have a majority to choose from. You can get some chicks to chase you now by not making them to much of a priority such as responding every second and being needy, build your physical appearance by hitting the gym, working on your game, style and doing something with your life.
I've done everything but still got no girl, leave alone chasing me
[–]007deku 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Taking like that it's hard to believe you get women. And damn your own moms opinion is invalid?
[+]D3vi1b0y1 points 3 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
[–]007deku 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's invalid because she thinks no one is good enough for me. You need to separate your family from your relationship if you want to have a happy relationship. I don't hate my mother nor would I do anything bad but she can't give me her opinion on who I want to date and expect me to listen. It's my life not her's.
[–]PhilAb93 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Unpopular opinion: Since it's natural for mothers to fend for their offsprings, there's nothing special about a mother's love.
Agree
The fact that you have a living mother, a person who will always do that for you is special enough in itself. She could have gave you up or legit did the bare minimum. Mothers love is really special and one of a kind. Of course less your mom just dont eff with you like that lol. I could never look at my mom and all the stuff she does and he like "nothing special" lol. Even if it was common it's still very special to the individual
[–]Independent-Garage59 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Since she is the only person told me that im handsome.
[–]bronele 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well a mother doesn't really have a choice. no matter how bad you behave, chances are that a responsible mother will do her duty to raise you and help you get on your feet, but everyone's patience has a limit.
If you don't learn from your mother, you will not be able to form a meaningful connection and have a family, which will lead to a very sad and lonely final part of your life, once she's gone.
So don't take mothers love for granted. Realize that if she had a choice she would probably do what all the other women in your life do to you.
[–]Trubridge 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Insane that people still take ghosting so personally.
[–]OldAd8188 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Like I got things to do, ya know?!? And I'm not always on my phone. (Unpopular opinion of my own.) But like sometimes I need my own time and I don't need to give an explanation for it.
[–]Subject_Ad_9871 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Strongly agree. Bookmarked.
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Totally agree. If a woman doesn’t reply to a call or text, delete her number. DO NOT call her or text her again. Don’t be a simp.
Damn man, I wash I had a women who disrespects me
[–]juice2092 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Facts
[–]Ok_Glove8594 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fact
[–]hannibal_barca_1 -4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
By far the most truthful thing!
[–]33jeremy 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What about grandma?
She too
[–]TheRealAlkemyst 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Except for your daughter(s).
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