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[–]seduction-ModTeam[M] -1 points0 points1 point 3 years agolocked comment (0 children) | Copy Link
This post/comment has been removed because it violates Rule #5: The topic is too broad, has been covered a lot already, or involves the assumption overly limited by race, age, physical limitations/appearance, and/or other inborn external qualities.
Put in some reading & work before asking questions that have been addressed, like: * How do I approach? * How do I get a number? * How do I talk to girls at college? * How/When do I kiss a girl? * Does this really work?
As for the last one, it is an answered question. There have been many posts on physical limitations over the years, including this one. No need to re-ask it.
[–]WackLion 8 points9 points10 points 3 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
self improvement with the goal of attaining sex won’t work man. focus on genuinely improving urself.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD 6 points7 points8 points 3 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
I don't get this.
If you are ugly and no girls like you
you need to self improve to get girls
right?
[–]WackLion -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
once u self improve urself to a point where ur happy with urself, the girls will come. based on ur post, ion think ur there yet man.
edit: if ur not willing to be patient with urself. do what the others suggested and get a hooker. once again tho. try to attain joy without sex.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
How much more self improvement do i need to do seriously? this blows, how much more do i need to add to my bench?
[–]WackLion -2 points-1 points0 points 3 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
once again wrong mentality. this attitude makes it seem like ur just waiting for it to be over with. it’s a marathon man, not a sprint. might as well put some actual effort in and try to enjoy urself. ppl that get girls often don’t make getting girls their main focus.
edit: to answer ur question, i don’t know cause i don’t know u.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
This is pure coping.
If everyone was happy with themselves and didn't need a relationship or sex then why do people pursue relationships and sex?
I'm so god darn tired of this NPC advice "Just focus on yourself bro!" "just be happy with yourself bro"
It's so short sighted.
[–]WackLion -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
well it works for me. and i have a roster of sexy women waiting to fuck me whenever i want. maybe u should try it and stop searching for a quick answer on reddit. cause there isn’t one.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
hahaha, exactly you have NO IDEA what it's like to be lonely.
You're like a rich person saying to a poor person " Just focus on yourself bro who cares about money"
jesus christ. This proves my point exactly. lmao.
[–]WackLion -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
lmao u don’t think i was in ur position at one point? dude pretty much every guy is. i just worked hard on things like my style and body to make me the best version of myself that i can be. that’s what u needa do and stop thinking bout getting girls.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Wait, so you did self improve for girls?
strong contradiction bro.
[–]WackLion2 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
no bruh. i stopped caring. not gonna give advice to someone incompetent that isn’t willing to listen. good luck getting ur “sex”
[–]CaptainSaveBPD-2 points 3 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
so you didn't self improve
but then you did self improve
now you have a roster of women to fuck
okay bud.
[–]Basic85 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've been trying to "improve myself" for years and still nothing.
[–]Therocksays2020 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
An escort could fix sexlesnrss but that isn’t your problem. You’re lonely
Are you a virgin?
[–]CaptainSaveBPD -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't like escorts, it;s not the real thing
[–]RedditsOlderBrah 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
do you think it's a good use of your time on earth being depressed over something that even for sex havers is a very, very small part of their lives?
[–]CaptainSaveBPD 5 points6 points7 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Sex and relationships are an important part to happiness and life fulfillment according to studies and psychologists.
[–]RedditsOlderBrah -4 points-3 points-2 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
sure but you will find no research saying a lack of it stops you from happiness or fulfilment.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD 2 points3 points4 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
source?
[–]RedditsOlderBrah -3 points-2 points-1 points 3 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
my source would be your inability to find evidence that a lack of sex prevents happiness and fulfilment.
EDIT: you people are fucking morons
there's no milk in that bowl.
SOURCE?!
my source is your inability to show me milk in that bowl.
[–]lifeintraining 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sex havers
Lucky fuckers.
[–]KrimsonPepe 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
buy an escort
[–]Repulsive-Fee393 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Hookers
[–]CaptainSaveBPD 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
they suck
[–]Repulsive-Fee393 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, and a whole bunch more lol. Don’t discredit the value of hookers dude, they’ve been providing a necessary service since the dawn of time, and they’re lovely people too. You literally get to fuck your dream girl which takes the anxiety out of your world view about hot chicks. I’m a big advocate for hookers if you’re not getting laid.
[–]CaptainSaveBPD 3 points4 points5 points 3 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I've been before and it sucks, it's mechanical and nothing like the 'real thing' it's like an expensive fap.
[–]Repulsive-Fee393 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
You should really try a different hooker
[–]CaptainSaveBPD -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
they're all very similar. you can't comapre the real thing to hookers.
[–]Kakatheman 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Big lol
why big lol?
[–]NDex101 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
When you know how to pick up a woman, you get to pick the times you’re sexless. Going through a dry spell is daunting, but it’s not hopeless. I recommend getting a dating coach.
[–]Horror-Skirt7233 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What have you done to self improve in the past?
[–]CaptainSaveBPD 1 point2 points3 points 3 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
go to gym, eat healthy, maintain job, try and upskill and study after work, dress better, better haircuts, skin and hair routine, be more social join more hobbies, exercise 5x a week minimum, don't fap, no porn, cold showers, no alcahol, no smoking, no drugs
[–]Street_Journalist_83 -1 points0 points1 point 3 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe you are being too good..as in..that list just sounds like ‘no fun’. Maybe if you loosen up a little / have a drink and try to show positivity / big beaming smile and charm (yes it’s hard to fake it trust me I know), you will work wonders in attracting more girls. I am a girl btw.
Doesn't seem to matter. I got girls years ago when i had depression.
[–]Necrosaro_123 0 points1 point2 points 3 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
First: Getting a Girlfriend is NOT an Achievable Goal:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ioa6BjuSOt4
Second: You don't self improve yourself for sex/relationship. You do it for youself, for your self-esteem and live better. You don't improve for sex.
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