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No-Historian-6391 · 2022-10-10T08:06:22+00:00

Maybe you’re gay

revente · 2022-10-10T10:11:13+00:00

Treat it like a shittest:

'I'm not gay but my bf is.'

Also, stop overthinking.

Once I got called gay by some chick in a club. Asked her if she even kissed a gay dude. Proceeded to make out with her.

Auckboy · 2022-10-10T10:17:04+00:00

I get accused of being gay aswell some times, I just shrug it off and say “I wish! would be so much easier, girls are a pain in the ass” in a joking way

zertsetzung · 2022-10-10T12:30:58+00:00

Oh worse than that much worse. You wrent just not showing sexual interest early on, you are giving off signals to women that you have effeminate traits.

So much so that they are assuming you arent in the market for them.

Theres levels to this shit.

You can be so boring that and not sexual that women around you see you as a brother, platonic friend, or not see you at all because you are invisible to them.

You can be too sexual to early on when it is unwarranted and it makes you come off as a creep.

You could be so charasmatic, so aminimated, so friendly that it looks gay.

My advice. Slow down your speech. Slow down your walk. Speak fewer words (but make them count). Talk more to women than to men but when you talk to women tease them a little bit sexually if you like them and they like you back.

Getting the type of feedback you got from those females can be humiliating.

But you must always remember that if it is even one who says this to you, its probably you and not them and therefore you need to fix it somehow...(if you want to get laid that is).

TheRealestBiz · 2022-10-10T13:51:27+00:00

Allow me to introduce the concept of the dandy to y’all.

MissionAd399 · 2022-10-10T03:17:43+00:00

You’re probably being too flamboyant instead of just laidback or chill.

GalacticLunarLion · 2022-10-10T01:23:34+00:00

Maybe it’s your speech inflection?

gornad96 · 2022-10-10T06:19:00+00:00

I have the same experience. Last month I was hit on by two separate gay guys in one night and another night I approached two girls with my friend and they thought we were a couple…i try to take it as a good thing but damn.

imo I think it’s mainly your appearance and then tonality. I have a baby face and while I’m buff i have a thin frame. I wear tight-fitting clothes. I just look more feminine than the average guy. I’m also a bit too friendly in my interactions which adds to the effect…I’m still trying to figure it out.

Lonely-Pikachu · 2022-10-10T16:28:06+00:00

Quite a few people started asking me if I was gay it at least bi when I got a haircut with yellowish top and black bottom (natural color)

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