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epimpstyle · 2022-10-09T20:30:23+00:00

Dude, you have balls if you offered your hand to a girl who is dancing.

I don't have anything to say...

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-10-09T18:44:42+00:00

I walked up to her and offered her my hand to dance and she took it and danced for a few minutes

i cannot believe that worked, but good for you man!

but yes, a girl will take it to heart when she puts in a lot of effort to get to know you and you just walk off to babysit a drunk. don't do that in future, or apologise profusely to her before you leave and say you'll be right back.

rahhumilovedogs · 2022-10-09T20:47:42+00:00

You just walked off she felt rejected then you tried to come back. She wasn't happy. Not gonna fly

MissionAd399 · 2022-10-10T04:13:03+00:00

Let me tell you something, you did nothing wrong. One thing to understand about the club is, it’s basically a random outcome generator. There’s no point in questioning a girl’s behaviour because they usually don’t make sense anyway. You kinda just learn to brush it off, I’ve had things from a girl buying me a shot then rejecting me, dancing with me then stopping to say she’s a lesbian just to let the creepiest guy who was harassing her 5 secs ago weasel his way in a triple kiss with her and a girl, another time I asked a girl “where is your boyfriend” she says “he doesn’t exist” and 30 seconds later she’s asking me to spit a shot of alcohol in her mouth, which I do just for her to end up disappearing and never talking to me again after taking my phone, putting her number in it and making sure she calls herself so she can save mine. Funniest thing recently was when 2 girls me and my wingman picked up stood there, watched and waited for us while we hit on and grinded with 2 other girls blatantly in front of them and when we finished walked right out with the girls who waited and took them home.

I’m telling you it makes no sense. Sometimes you have these encounters and other times you just don’t see anything you like and nothing happens, even when it comes to that point of night where we start lowering our standards. I’d say just keep going out and experiencing these random encounters with women, cause that’s really all it is, random. It’s up to you how you navigate the randomness and hold frame at all times

nupollution · 2022-10-09T22:07:01+00:00

Good approach! Sounds like she wasn't into you, or she would have gone for a second round.

Don't overanalyze! Perhaps you didn't do anything wrong at all, and she suddenly wasn't feeling well.... there are infinite speculations you can make about "why" things happened, and you'll never know the truth unless you ask Her. Save that brain power for something more effective!

zapadz · 2022-10-09T23:49:48+00:00

You shouldn’t have gone back to her, instead go socialize with others and make it seem like you just bumped into each other again.

trist0n2 · 2022-10-10T01:30:51+00:00

She’s probably retarded and thought that you left to find a hotter girl to dance with, got rejected, and went back to her

incognito3107 · 2022-10-10T02:07:24+00:00

It could be different if you would tell her that you will come shortly. She may felt abandoned and her emotions dropped significantly. You broke the mood. Also, you should escalate some touch, you are not there to dance.

No big deal, just keep it like that. Have some brief conversation, but overall just make your body speak.

StupidDegenerate · 2022-10-10T02:35:02+00:00

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Date	October 9, 2022 6:39 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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