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Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-08-11T02:04:31+00:00

By meeting more and more people from them until you get desensitized to it. Try to go on as many first dates as you can per week.

beautifultomatillo2 · 2022-08-11T02:40:04+00:00

Try not to hookup with them until the 3rd or 4th date, that way you’re only left with the people that are genuine

Impressive-Medium-13 · 2022-08-11T02:53:24+00:00

A lot of guys feel that if they don’t get a kiss or something on the first date they’re never gonna.

Reasonable_Ad_6626 · 2022-08-11T03:30:21+00:00

Just read through this forum a bit..

And no hookups.

You can do better than that. Vet them untill you know they're serious and won't hurt you.

boxinsideme · 2022-08-11T03:35:42+00:00

People don't know what the fuck they're doing anymore. First of all, both yourself and these gentlemen you are meeting shouldn't be giving it up so easily. Both parties need to be playing hard to get a bit more.

When you have sex after the first meet up, that's it. You've both fully exposed yourselves to each other before you even really got to know them as a person.

Man... if I really liked you a lot I would be playing my cards a little smarter. I'm gonna dangle that carrot in front of you for a while. I wanna show you a fun time on the first date and leave you wanting more. Leave you thinking about what a fun time you had with me. Second date, even better. End the night with a passionate kiss. Build that tension up more. Give you a reason to text me the next day. Give you a reason to want to see me again.

You would be so mad with lust and desire from the anticipation, that you would be throwing yourself at me. Then... Finally it happens. And it is FIREWORKS BABY!

TheTruth221 · 2022-08-11T05:29:57+00:00

find another one like dj kelly said

itsbobobetch · 2022-08-11T07:11:53+00:00

Get off dating apps if you’re looking for real connection and intimacy tbh, you’re going to find superficial horny dudes on it primarily .

ilovefootball49 · 2022-08-11T08:05:28+00:00

Majority of men on dating apps are superficial. They want hot girls and they want to hook up, especially at that age. If you don't like it try other apps like match.com or eharmony that are geared towards dating, or just delete them altogether.

2022-08-11T08:29:29+00:00

There may be a lot of reasons why they break the contact with you after meeting in real life. You don't expect to just get with anyone, do you? Most people are so invested with this "cultural schemes" that you can't be sure at all about their words and you need to trust emotions and intuition more. If you feel you created some genuine connection and there are big hopes for the future, you may engage yourself little more. Otherwise, if nothing "memmorable" happened on a date, it is very much probable that it will end there.

grindforthegold · 2022-08-11T12:18:08+00:00

well, this happens to me with girls that are highly attractive. if you’re going for guys that are “a catch” or “really hot” this will keep happening , until you eventually get lucky. if you want a hot guy then put up with it until you land it. otherwise as you bring your standards down the flaking will come down as well. It’s kind of a risk reward thing , if you want the reward of a super attractive/tall/successful guy you’ll have to have to take the risk of them not liking you or leading you on.

2022-08-11T21:16:43+00:00

Problems are self created. All that exists is experience. Everything else is made up by you. This is only a problem because you're making it one. Understand that everything is impermanent. All relationships end. Some after 1 night, others after 1000 nights. You likely have something from your past triggering these feelings. Maybe your Dad left at a young age? Or you're new to dating (being 18) and over time you'll feel less.

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