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Matt_Bigmonster · 2022-07-26T09:17:07+00:00

Own it, they will be ok with it as long as you are ok with ir. Just say "just so you know, I don't have 200 women behind me so I would love to take it slow and learn you". Most women will think it's fresh and cute. One that don't are not worth your time anyways.

dump_fool · 2022-07-26T19:21:58+00:00

Your feeling of inadequacy is killing you and your chances.

You are reading too much shit that tells to do that and this and that. Stop worrying you were born with all you need just stop feeling inadequate and your instincts will guide you.

A woman can't tell if you haven't got laid a decade ago or if you haven't kiss a millennia ago unless you tell her. And if she does somehow you say "you're right, i'm a virgin, you'll have to teach me everything" :))

Crow729 · 2022-07-26T12:10:12+00:00

Well a woman who agreed to go on a date with you, do like you and is attracted to you.
So she will expect you to make a move on her. If she doesn't want to then she will tell you to stop.
In any relationship the communication is the key.
Besides you shouldn't be afraid to ask her, any nice girl will appriciate you much more for asking and talking about sexual things before hand.
IMO any woman should appreciate the man she is with, as he is.

Romantic_Adventurer · 2022-07-26T15:05:28+00:00

You can always get better, the important thing is to take care of yourself (physical and mental health) and then just meet new people. It doesn't matter if you are a sex god or a virgin, what matter is you are curious, playful and always open to learn new things.

If your main focus right now is to game (considering that there are no health issue,s money issues, anything personally bad going on) than I can confidantly say that if you focus on opening more sets, getting the reps in every day, you can find someone to help you and guide you through the learning process.

Remember: there are millions of people in the world, all with unique perosnalites, you gotta put in the effort and find those who suit you!

If you would like to learn more, send me a message! It is an honor and a privilege to be of service.
Stay grateful, Romantic_Adventurer.

PaidRenegade · 2022-07-26T16:15:06+00:00

If you’re not insecure about it it’s not a big deal.

paull-blartt · 2022-07-27T05:58:18+00:00

Me who is going to escort and having mad fun while doing it😂☠️

atomant88 · 2022-07-27T10:16:50+00:00

if youre actually confident then you wont be inexperienced for long. just make sure you ask for consent and it'll all be good.

Bosscat727 · 2022-07-26T16:10:50+00:00

Escalate. If you need more experience the only way to get it is to do something. If she likes a lot you she may even help you out. You may be better than you think.

P7o7s7t7a7l · 2022-07-26T19:08:58+00:00

I've had similar experiences and I know what it's like. It took me some time to actually get comfortable. The main difference was just having my own place. That's key.

I don't necessarily get completely sexual until she's in my bedroom, so as far as kissing and other forms of foreplay there's really no limits to that. It's like riding a bike; it becomes intuitive. If you get her going by kissing her, etc. you need to eventually advance to your place or hers, just by suggesting to do so. She may not be ready for that, but it's actually worse to just sit with her and suck face without the thought of what to do next. She'll appreciate it.

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