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helpMeOut9999 · 2022-07-23T17:29:01+00:00

To be honest it sounds like either you have dopamine burnout or you yourself are boring.

Boring insofar as you don't have many hobbies, social groups, sports, etc.

And if I am wrong on that, the next obvious choice is that you don't have many dimensions to connect on and/or you haven't found a girl that connects on those levels.

Sex with a hot girl but no emotional connection is boring. Picking up girls is boring. It's an empty life.

Building a life and connecting emotionally is what we have evolved to do. That is where fulfillment lies.

But if you've spent a life jerking off to porn and playing video games you have likly burnt out your dopamine system.

hookedonfonicsmunky · 2022-07-23T17:19:56+00:00

haha i ended a 3.5 year dry spell recently by sleeping with two chicks in two weeks and now i'm like you😂 every date after im like leave me alone i don't wanna spend money anymore haha

Death_Portal · 2022-07-23T18:03:52+00:00

i can relate to the part where girls all start to look average.

girls who i would have killed to hook up with when i was younger are opening me and all i see when i look at them is someone with a rodent face, or a girl with just a little too much make up, or a little too much fat, or some weird feature like a zit on her forehead or weird posture, or a little older than i like, etc.

it's annoying, kind of wished my standards were lower because you come to recognize that genuinely hot girls are very rare. once you start to get some it feels like your standards go high and you become picky like a woman.

i don't recommend the coke though, absolutely killed my dick the few times i tried it and tried to fuck. couldn't feel a thing, last time that happened to me i tried to just pull out and finish myself off and it wouldn't work, woke up the next morning with bruises on my dick i was squeezing so hard just to feel something.

Environmental_Cress2 · 2022-07-23T18:38:10+00:00

did you just meet your coworker too??

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-07-23T19:27:14+00:00

You don’t have real problems

YourAverageTurkGuy · 2022-07-23T20:05:25+00:00

Looks like you need to find purpose and mission man.

plowngo · 2022-07-23T23:03:40+00:00

That’s normal. The average person is boring and ugly. But it’s necessary to go through them to meet higher quality people.

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