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[–]ProbablyAutisticMe 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
You have something going on. Something social with family or male friends or something more important than Netflix and video games. You don't need or want to be at her beck and call. Maybe tell her when you can talk again to have her wait in anticipation.
There is some value to not being available 100% of the time. It can help her miss and appreciate you more, as long as you don't overdo it and come off as dismissive
[–]JohnT39 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Smart. I’ll say I’m too busy filling out job applications, as that’s actually true lol.
Just wanted to get reddits advice. Thanks man :)
[–]hausofedd 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
You don't have to go into details like that, just hey I liked talking too and I got a bunch of stuff I gotta do right now let's chat xzy
[–]JohnT39 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True
[–]Cantsleepperson 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Cool, make sure she doesn’t find your Reddit history. LOL.
[–]JohnT39 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Ikr 😅 she already likes my ass and I don’t want her to get any more ideas bc I’m really not into that kinda stuff as much as it would seem from my history 😂
[–]Cantsleepperson 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, fucking pillows would get old after a while.
[–]legitusername1995 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why the fuck did you make me look man
[–]Environmental_Cress2 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣🤣
[–]Silver-Variation89031 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Withdraw yourself. Push pull. Say chat later and don’t give any reason for why you’re busy to keep mystery.
Withdrawing attention when a woman wants more of it makes her want you more.
[–]mx30mark -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Stop playing games and enjoy the company
[–]JohnT39 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
wdym?
[–]mx30mark 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Stop playing with the difficult schedule. Enjoy the time together. She is willing. At the end of it, if it doesn't work out, move on. But embrace the moment.
[–]recyclablebanthas 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Just finished a 1hour phone convo, and she texts me and wants to call again bc she said she enjoyed it. What should I do?
You haven't really said what you're after so it's a bit difficult to say what you ought to do.
[–]JohnT39 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry for not being clear. I wrote that pretty fast.
She obviously wants to be in a relationship and I kinda just want to be fwb
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