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solidnsnake1254 · 2022-07-14T17:48:06+00:00

Literally don’t make it too complicated, it’s fine just confirming “still good for “whatever” at “when”; if she was going to flake she is going to do it regardless

Nullroute127 · 2022-07-14T18:51:40+00:00

If the date is in the afternoon/evening, I like to do the INDIRECT confirm the day of. The day before women are in a completely different mindset than the day of. It helps you screen out flakes much more reliably.

I like the vague indirect confirmation, "Found out something interesting about ____, see you at __" - It's not needy, you expect her to deliver on the expectations she's set, and it's more likely to cause curiosity/intrigue that may push a girl who's planning on flaking to come through.

What that 'interesting thing' is can be anything you want it to be at the moment, to fit the scenario, or something you pre-planned.

Competitive-Link-912 · 2022-07-15T12:28:15+00:00

Christ… has anyone in this threat ever dated.

Of course it is ok to text with a “are we still on for later”… I do this with girls and they do it with me as well. To think that a simple question like this lowers your value is absurd, unless all your value is created via a facade and you are horrendously insecure.

The higher value man who gets multiple dates with multiple beautiful women a week does not even think “if I text this girl in advance” I’ll come across as insecure. He cannot be insecure, because he know she has options.

He just texts, if he doesn’t get a positive response he bails and onto the next one.

Seduction, as people will have you believe is a game. It is not a game that you can learn, it’s about improving yourself and becoming a more attractive person through years of trial and error.

When you are genuinely attractive, you won’t be posting these types of questions on Reddit as you will know that Reddit will not give you experienced answers.

Man get out there, read, learn to speak with intelligence, develop your own way of flirting, develop your own style, stay in good shape, how to smile, how to clearly communicate intentions in person. What works for me, will not work for you and vice versa because we are all different, but you need to find this out yourself from years of trial and error.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-07-14T18:05:10+00:00

No never say the words: “are we still (positive thing you want)?”

It makes you come across as insecure.

Don’t ask it like that if you want to confirm:

Say something like “wear something cute tomorrow” or “don’t forget to bring your smile tomorrow”

asking the question “are we still going to the date”, just sounds so lame

burakbenxd · 2022-07-15T17:01:35+00:00

Either way guys, she flaked. I learned my mistake. It's all a learning experience. I'll go out tonight and have fun either way.

Thony311 · 2022-07-14T19:05:33+00:00

I would just start a regular convo and bring up the reminder in the middle of it

Stujitsu2 · 2022-07-14T20:03:32+00:00

Tonight at 7 is still good for me, how about you? Great, see you then!

burakbenxd · 2022-07-14T17:36:14+00:00

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BigTBoneDog · 2022-07-14T19:16:19+00:00

Typically an std check is a good 'follow up'

modsRlameIRL · 2022-07-14T19:29:32+00:00

I say “hey miss, I’ll be there before you so if get lost or running late just let me know :)”

Love_Eternal · 2022-07-15T09:14:21+00:00

Text her in the morning: "See ya tonight^^"

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