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AssistTemporary8422 · 2022-07-11T04:43:34+00:00

Here are my ten commandments (in no particular order):

Physical attractiveness matters.
Meet women through social circle, events, out and about, and online.
Abundance and quantity matters.
Seduction is based on good social skills and a good social life.
Don't be too platonic.
Logistics is important.
Don't be too needy.
Be fun, flirtacious, and self-amusing.
Empathy and reading her are important.
It helps to have the qualities of a good partner, being well adjusted, and having your life together.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2022-07-11T04:38:33+00:00

Be a patient listener (it is this, not fast talking, that gets a con man his coups).

Agreed. But self-amusing and not being too agreeable are important.

Never look bored.

Push pull is important in dating. Looking bored when you are authentically bored is part of pull.

Wait for the other person to reveal any political opinions, then agree with them.

Again pull is an important part of dating, and its dangerous to be overly agreeable. If she expresses political opinions you disagree with, maybe just don't talk about politics rather than lying.

Let the other person reveal religious views, then have the same ones.

Its overly agreeable, needy, and deceptive to pretend to agree with the woman on everything. If she has different religious views, just change the topic.

Hint at sex talk, but don't follow it up unless the other person shows a strong interest.

I agree. No unwanted sex talk.

Never discuss illness, unless some special concern is shown.

Illness like religion and politics aren't ideal topics for dating. But sometimes it really helps people bond to open up about things.

Never pry into a person's personal circumstances (they'll tell you all eventually).

No, its okay to ask sometimes when its clear they want to share, and you are sharing as well.

Never boast – just let your importance be quietly obvious.

I generally agree with this. But sometimes you can boast in a funny or self-aware way.

Never be untidy.

Generally agree but don't get too hung up on perfect tidiness.

Never get drunk.

I agree with this, and additionally don't have sex with a woman who is drunk. Consent.

potatoeswithfries · 2022-07-11T06:40:26+00:00

I'd have to think for a long time to get "The Ten Commandments Of Seduction", and I don't really have that time, but I can tell you what would be the first one right away:

Always try to look your best (AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR HYGIENE!).

PaleoPimp · 2022-07-11T10:38:39+00:00

Number 1 commandment: you can't negotiate attraction

Aka don't waste you time, when there is no spark.

entericalamity · 2022-07-11T19:33:35+00:00

This is the most simp shit I have ever read in my entire life.

2022-07-11T07:38:46+00:00

Eh. If you need ten your game is weak.

SymYJoestar · 2022-07-11T14:26:34+00:00

Never get drunk is definitly a good advise. Talking about self experience

mabden · 2022-07-11T14:28:35+00:00

When you are first meeting up with a girl, keep it light and fun!

Unless you are considering marriage with any girl, Do Not Discuss Religion. If she brings it up, change the subject. If she insists on your views, have one. If she ends the interaction because of differences, so be it, any relationship would have problems form the get go.

Same with politics.

strange_angle · 2022-07-11T14:43:48+00:00

Be confidant not cocky
Be nice but not needy
Listen and pay attention to body language
Pay compliments but also tease in a playful way
Research what the person enjoys of your not familiar with it.
Ask questions so they think they're teaching you something
Eye contact and smiles
Laugh at their jokes
Don't complain about your life or your circumstances
Be honest but don't over share.

In my opinion all of these things are essential. I probably would switch the order but I wrote them down as they came to me. Also, these are relevant whether your male/female/trans

AngeloMacon · 2022-07-11T15:59:25+00:00

Why the hell would you blindly agree with her religious views? And anyone bringing up politics early on is an instant next. I don't even care if I actually agree with them.

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