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[–]FutureBannedAccount2 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What was the argument about texting?
Why would you ask someone who just said they’re uncomfortable with you where they’re at?
Yes and based on this short post there was probably many issues before this. So whatever you did here, do the complete opposite next time
[–]AimpactBebop -5 points-4 points-3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I know her for 2 weeks we text and all good, it was about why she leaves me on read sometimes and I guess I was too aggressive asking her. But I was talking here face to face when we had the small argument at work
[–]FutureBannedAccount2 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What? What makes you think she likes you if she’s leaving you on read and straight up told you you make her uncomfortable? If someone leaves you on read regularly it means they don’t want to talk to you.
And don’t be confrontational with those people especially not when you work in the same area and especially not if you’ve only been talking for 2 weeks
[–]Contango6969 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
“You make me uncomfortable” “Where you at though”
Lmao
[–]AimpactBebop -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
We both work at the same place and was clocking out from work. And I wanted to talk to her in person to apologize. And the small argument we had was the same day in our lunch break, it was face to face
[–]willgo-waggins 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Can you understand the meaning of the words “creepy stalker” and “threatening”?
You’re lucky she didn’t call the cops and already have an RO on your sad ass.
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
It doesn’t matter if the argument was small and face to face…
You keep repeating that as if that makes it less of a deal or something.
Based on all this things you wrote here, she did very well to block you because not only are you creepy as fuck, but even when you are told that you are being creepy you don’t seem to understand it, you seem to be unable to do wake up and see things as they are, and that makes you so dangerous.
If my daughter had a guy like you pestering her after she blocked him, i guarantee you that guy would be history.
Like back off dude. Whenever you think it’s a good idea to justify yourself to her, just think that the girl is a step away from reporting you.
“Your good intentions” she doesn’t care. Your intention to apologize, you can save it… she doesn’t need your apologies, she just wants you to stay away from her.
The situation with this girl can only stay profesional form now on assuming you grow up and wake up. It won’t be anything more than that regardless of what she said before all this happened
Just be happy that the only consequences for now has been getting blocked.
[–]AimpactBebop 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I see, I will let it be and won't contact her in anyway. If she wants to talk she will unblock me and if she doesn't then that's ok with me
[–]CompetitionFair7686 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Well, your mistake was arguing about texting or anything in generals Like you don’t even have anything serious with her and you are already arguing? That tends to creep out women a lot.
You should never argue with women who aren’t even your girlfriends.
Heck sometimes even if you have a girlfriend it’s probably better if you don’t argue.
specially if you were arguing about how she didn’t reply sooner or left you on read or shit like that.
That’s just a huge red flag like a biiiiig red flag because it makes you come across as demanding, entitled and egocentric as if the world revolves around you and she was obligated to give you attention when she doesn’t have to if she doesn’t want to.
Heck, she doesn’t even need to give you explanations as to why she doesn’t want to do something because you are not her boyfriend or anything significant to be demanding anything from her.
so it’s likely that she wants to set things straight with you and keep things profesional from now on, because you killed the vibe with that argument and once it’s gone, it’s gone
[–]AimpactBebop 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Damn u right, we both work the same shift and we see each other 3 times at work in our breaks. What can I do to gain her back?
[–]CompetitionFair7686 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link
Lol. You cannot get back someone you never had.
Women don’t often give second chances but when they do it’s only to guys they already had something with because they still love him.
But if you haven’t even had sex with her, you can simply forget about it. This girl has disqualified you. Game is over.
[–]AimpactBebop -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
She did tell me before she likes me a lot. And is attractive to me, .I'm saying u think maybe I can go no contact with her at work and then in a week or 2 try to say hi and build that connection again?
[–]EmrysAllen 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What do you not understand about Game is over? You have zero chance with this girl, ever. You acted like a creep and she blocked you. Game. Over.
[–]FutureBannedAccount2 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What she said: “I’m not gonna lie to you. You kinda make me uncomfortable I don’t like you like that”
What he hears: “I’ve really enjoyed these 2 weeks I haven’t texted you back and you basically the hottest guy ever”
[–]CompetitionFair7686 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
What a girl said in the past, she only meant it in the past. It’s over mate. You are literally being told by her that you make her uncomfortable to the point she blocked you.
Like she literally blocked you before you manage to even kiss her or have sex with her. Talk about being clear. But nope, apparently her blocking you and telling you that you are making her feel uncomfortable you interpret that as “she just wants me to back off and try again in a few weeks”
If you keep harassing her she will report you and you’ll get in trouble. Move on.
No means No. It doesn’t mean you keep trying every few weeks. That’s literally harassing the girl. It’s no wonder so many women hate men, when you can’t accept that no means no. You can’t even respect her decision at all.
But no, you have to force things and keep harassing her until when? Until she calls the cops and puts a restraining order on you?
It doesn’t matter how small you think the issue was. It doesn’t matter if you think it could be resolved if she just let you talk things with her...
Just find another girl and don’t make the same mistakes with that new girl… it’s not that hard.
But when a girl blocks you on a messaging app and yet you continue to talk to her through other means, in some countries that’s even considered illegal.
[–]AimpactBebop -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think the argument was a big deal for her to block me, here is the one thing in my mind. U think (my bad) response was not good enough ?
[–]willgo-waggins 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Bro to hard and heavy.
Leave her be and let her come to you. If she does, ease up to things slowly over time. And never get bent. Especially over something as dumb as that. It’s pointless and you fucked around and found out right?
Next time make sure you have some life activities or other chicks to keep you from losing your damn mind and going hardball on some girl you basically just met.
I’m essence off you’re like me and basically always fucking them immediately or at most within a week, you can up the pressure at will and read it as to too much vs not enough. And I still let them sit and simmer to build the desire and tension.
But you obviously were barely stayed and you need to learn to be patient and back off and chill.
Bro everything u just said is 100 % the truth. That is exactly me. I spend most of my time thinking about her non stop and have no activities. And I went to hard. I'm just going to give her space like u said and if she likes me she will come back, because I too feel that it's stupid for this to happen over a small fight. Do u have any more advice? I feel ur just like me too lol
[–]kuavi 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she blocked you, you missed quite a few signs along the way that shes not into you and you probably pushed past a few "please leave me alone" signs.
Take the L, move on and learn when women are saying non verbal nos and to take the rejection gracefully.
Good luck bud, it's a steep learning curve but you'll get there if you learn non verbal cues, build yourself up and be respectful.
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