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[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If she has a lot of options, realistically its a bit of a crapshoot for you. Don't invest too much into her and just shoot your shot. Start casual (she knows you are interested), and then ask her out.
[–]MUhholen 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link
Act uninterested, they hate it
[–]Daisymch 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
Well when a girl has lots of options she’s more likely to not care n move onto the next one unless you’ve built something with her no?
[–]ResponsibilityKey427 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Exactly, she don’t care bruh.
She has 10 dudes hitting her up offering her whatever she wants.
Some of them have money too and dumping.
[–]Daisymch 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
Solution?
[–]MermaidOfScandinavia 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link
Become more interesting than them, talk about things that will be exciting, topics she will find intriguing, be funny. As a woman I can tell you that funny men har super attractive. Make her feel wanted without being over the top. Give genuine compliments that isn't about how she looks. Create conversations that will make her stay awake at night analysing your conversation over and over again.
[–]shared0 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Become more interesting than them,
I hate how we men always have to be better than the other guy so that one of us can get what the other will be denied but this is virtually a non existent concept for women. We're the ones that have to fight so we can get the precious attention of the female. Pisses me off, and it's seen as perfectly cool. Yet you look at the female side and it's always them raising their own value, sometimes exaggerating and claiming how no man is good enough for them.
[–]MermaidOfScandinavia 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Well there is usually a sea of men around us women so you have to stand out to get the attention. In this day and age you could be competing for the attention with up to 700 other guys. I am not making this up. Its a real number if a girl is really attractive. Of course we girls also need to make an effort. But its not necessarily because we are competing. As a woman I have to set a standard in order to dismiss some of the guys. We can't just choose someone based on a here and now consept. This needs to be analysed for us to at least try to choose correctly. Maybe that comes up arrogant or what not. But we have to protect ourselves against people with bad Intentions. Try to make a female profile on q dating app and live our experience for a week or a month. Choose some attractive pictures of a woman and see what happens. It will open your eyes. There is guys that are good enough. We just have to stay safe. Dating or scoring isn't easy. It's a jungle. A woman should be allowed to look at her as important. It's better than having no confidence. You have to adopt a better attitude if you want to get lucky.
[–]shared0 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I wasn't complaining about what you said, I'm just saying I hate how this is the reality.
But we have to protect ourselves against people with bad Intentions.
Don't get me wrong, I know how it is. I'm just saying it's really sad.
For a guy to be trying to get any female attention at all, while.any female has like.you said attention from 700 guys, and any guy who wants a chance has to accept that he has to compete with 700 guys. It just seems so devaluing to us guys that it just hurts to think about.
[–]MermaidOfScandinavia 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
We don't choose to get that much attention. It just happens. You just have to accept that the more attractive the woman is the more competition there is going to be.
[–]shared0 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
We don't choose to get that much attention. It just happens.
I really wasn't implying that. Nor was I saying it was anyone's fault. I'm just saying it's sad.
You just have to accept that the more attractive the woman is the more competition there is going to be.
It doesn't just go for the more attractive woman. There is also a shitload of attention for average women and men are expected to compete for them as well. Just not as much as the more attractive ones. Fucking nature really wanted to screw us guys.
[–]MermaidOfScandinavia1 point 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I was just using attractive girls as an example.
You can either except defeat or work on yourself.
I am working on myself all the time. Not for my boyfriend but for myself.
[–]Daisymch 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Mind helping me out with this particular case ? Could use a woman’s advice on this one
[–]MermaidOfScandinavia 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure.
[–]ResponsibilityKey427 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Be her best option
[–]Daisymch 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
In the process of that but this takes time
[–]notarealpersondw 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Sure but more likely than not she’ll care if you don’t pay her attention. Happens like clockwork. Reason being is her orbiters give her too much attention and you’re different.
Mind helping me out
[–]notarealpersondw 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sure. The only thing I can say is that the attraction starts months beforehand. All the gym work you put in, all the socialising and changing to a positive mindset. All the career improvements or uni grades etc. all the gathering interesting stories by doing fun hobbies or things. Making sure you dress really well look great and are in a great mood with good friends once you have that down pat you have a chance. If not make sure you work on that before you dream of getting a top grade woman, and that’s facts.
Now that you’re in the game, try to be introduced to her by somebody and when you are make sure you’re uninterested by polite enough that you’re not a dick. Make sure you don’t even try with her and that you will walk away at any moment. That’s literally it and then they’ll try to be around you to be noticed keep ignoring them until they eventually break and try to talk to you or maybe they’ll add you on Insta etc. it works so much on pretty girls. But it also doesn’t work sometimes so.. but in any case it’s not like you have high chances with much pretty girls anyway they’re just an annoying thing to play with
[–]Sup3rHD -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Fuck her friend
Not possible rn if her best friend she’d never let that happen
[–]thelakeproblem 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Pull a Pete Davidson.
Be there for her, make her laugh, send funny memes/videos.
Then pull back, and have her initiate.
Mind helping out ?
[–]Ambitious-Ice2357 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Act like you don’t give af as you ask her out. Like her answer doesn’t matter.
U mind helping me out I sent u a dm
[–]Bingo_is_the_man 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Move on and stop asking about “the one”, it’s loser talk.
Everyone’s perception of love is different my guy
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