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CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-25T12:33:47+00:00

Women don’t pay attention to what you have or your situation, what they pay attention is how you feel about what you have or your situation. If you feel embarrassed they will notice and will test you on that. The problem is that then you jumó to the conclusion that you were right abo it feeling embarrassed, but that’s a wrong conclusion.

The right conclusion is that girls notice your feelings, and if they sense you don’t like yourself or that you don’t accept yourself or your situation, that turns them off.

Because that projects weakness,… You want to change your life but are unable to do so, which is what girls don’t like.

However if you accept your life as it is, if you accept your situation as it is, if you can laugh about yourself, and do not take yourself so seriously, if you don’t feel embarrassed about who you are and don’t feel a need to justify yourself or defend yourself… Then women will ignore your flaws.

Women just don’t want a guy who is unsure or uncomfortable about himself, or his life, or his current situation in the present.

Seduction isn’t about proving your worth to the girl, or to prove you deserve her. It’s about connecting sexually and emotionally, making her feel positive emotions, chemistry, and sexual tension.

You don’t need to be better than other guys because it’s not about that. that’s not the correct frame to have. If you start comparing yourself to others, or you try to impress a girl, you won’t get girls.

Sup3rHD · 2022-06-25T09:24:16+00:00

Girls fuck guys without house and car, so 😂

Significant_Mall7027 · 2022-06-25T10:04:55+00:00

I aint saying she a gold digger but she aint messing with a broke nigga

EliteHomosexual · 2022-06-25T16:32:50+00:00

The best way to determine if she's really your girlfriend or not is to drive your car from high school. If she doesn't respect the idea that you drive a car that's either used or looks like a shit box, then she doesn't have the respect for you. The respect is only for how expensive or how nice the car looks thus meaning that she doesn't care about you.

Fapandwarmshowers · 2022-06-25T16:50:57+00:00

I think being driven by a woman can come across a very low value unless you have a car and your drunk. Its better to get a taxi or an uber to lifther than be driven by her. Being rejected 3 times is nothing professional pick up artists have like 10% pick up rate with woman. Approach 100 woman then report back about rejection. EVERYBODY get rejected. Your 19 for fuck sake, work on your self have fun be socialable and woman will come to you.

Optimisticfob · 2022-06-25T09:21:34+00:00

I got dumped because she “felt like a man” by using her car to take me out to dates that I paid for btw. Car is definitely a game changer imo

2022-06-25T09:33:19+00:00

Yeah? ofc I would lol

Domestic_Buy · 2022-06-26T01:11:51+00:00

Money, car or career doesn’t mean much when it comes to success with women.

What’s required is:

Massive action, being reasonably in shape and presentable, generating and developing leads and the right mentality.

If you go up to these girls expecting rejection and feeling you’re not good enough then those are the results you will get.

Improve your mentality and make the effort to make things happen and you can succeed.

Ace11791 · 2022-06-25T09:44:51+00:00

Not really tbh

cobraCL · 2022-06-25T09:58:20+00:00

It depends! How autonomous are you and how do you currently get around?

I personally wouldn't mind, so long as the guy makes his own plans for transport and wouldn't expect me to fall into the role of taxi driver.

My ex sold his car while we were together, and it didn't bother me that he was a "guy without a car", it bothered me that he relied on me exclusively for transport and would take my car and disappear with with for hours. If you are independent and can make a plan, this shouldn't be an issue.

ohsnapt · 2022-06-25T12:06:38+00:00

youve got an electric bike! thats awesome, basically a european scooter, which is hip and romantic

Lonely_Man22 · 2022-06-25T13:26:38+00:00

Bro, I have a car and my own place and still have no luck. I know a homeless guy that has no car and smells like shit and he slays like crazy. Having a car is absolutely pointless when u want to attract women. Trust me on this.

Kibahime · 2022-07-10T00:09:46+00:00

Personally? No. But that's because I only expect from a partner to meet me where I am in my life. If I don't cook, for instance, that doesn't mean I put that burden on my partner, and I'm still responsible for feeding myself at the end of the day. If they don't drive, the chances of me having to be 100% responsible for transportation and logistics, especially if it's a cishet man? Really high.

I personally don't date right now because I've got too much going on working on my health, a family members mental health issues, trying to change careers, etc. I'm not willing or able to put aside time that a partner would deserve.

I think if you're looking for a serious relationship you need to make a lifestyle that supports one. Have your own place, a vehicle, a steady job, and some hobbies. Preferably, go to therapy as well to work on the insecurity bit. Having a partner doesn't fix you, nor should you expect one to.

This isn't to say you need to be rich, like I said, make space to include a partner but be self sufficient first. Don't wait until you start dating to finish growing up.

You can date casually but you need to be 100% honest about your intentions and where you're at in your life. If you're lonely, spend more quality time with friends and family. Partnership should be about sharing your life with someone, not depending on them to fill a void. Or to drive you to dates.

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