I am a female in the friendzone. How do I get his attention? [recovered]

Royal_Habit_5286 · 2022-06-23T15:42:57+00:00

Just ask him if he wants to have sex

Creepy-Storage-1786 · 2022-06-23T15:35:13+00:00

When you were 14? Leave your brother alone he has moved on!

Plumbcrazy690 · 2022-06-23T16:03:25+00:00

I'm going to say it's just a hookup. If you haven't established a relationship yet it's probably not on his radar

ftdrain · 2022-06-23T16:29:18+00:00

Probably low level of interest, multiple girls on his plate, whatever the case may be, if you offered him sex and he said no its time to collect that very little dignity left and peace the fuck out.

RaisinComfortable534 · 2022-06-23T16:07:29+00:00

Are you seeking sex or a real relationship? If it was a fling so many years ago and you two have only been friends who see each other every few years then it doesn't sound like it is destined to be a serious relationship. With space and time apart his attention is elsewhere. If you do something drastic like attempt to move closer he may freak out completely. Enjoy what you have with him and go at his pace... I married my wife of ten years after dating her as a teen, separating after two years, moving/military service, having a child and a divorce. We were apart for over ten years... She waited until the right moment to make her move.

Plumbcrazy690 · 2022-06-23T15:34:00+00:00

11 years ago well are you still sexually active with him?

Plumbcrazy690 · 2022-06-23T15:35:54+00:00

And do you see each other all the time

chief_yETI · 2022-06-23T15:51:50+00:00

wear your best makeup and put on a 2-piece swimsuit and he'll be all over you within seconds.

2022-06-23T16:12:56+00:00

If he hasn't ever made a move since then and turned down sex, you just aren't his type, game over. But if you still want to get his attention, then you will need to improve your physical attractiveness, but even that isn't a guarantee.

Stujitsu2 · 2022-06-23T16:57:45+00:00

Is he involved with someone else?

Title	I am a female in the friendzone. How do I get his attention? [recovered]
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	1
Comments	30
Date	June 23, 2022 3:30 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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