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[–]garnageman 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
what you're talking about has nothing to do with intuition. that's just direct experience.
women's intuition (in the way you're thinking of) comes from how women communicate and extends beyond their interactions with men. the best i can describe it is that men are more literal but women are more indirect.
[–]Rastaman143 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Yes the only thing women can do well is figure out that a guy is talking to them because he likes her which isn’t difficult at all. Women can figure that out pretty easily just as any other animal can mating wise. Women are purely emotional a man can be a better emotionally charged logical seducer and that’s why the men that seduce are the most dangerous. Once you get good women are easy to read as are people in general and you’ll cunningly evade whatever “intuition” women have
[–]coachmelloweyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Elaborate on the emotionally charged logical seducer, I’ve never hear such a term.
[–]Rastaman143 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No I’m simply saying what a man can be. He is logical and to get women he is emotionally charged. He evokes emotions in them
[–]Altruistic-Collar105 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This comment is so true. So true.
[–]Technical_Hawk8547 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
The hotter the women the more shit tests will come your way. It’s even worse when the women is hot and knows it. Since they do get approached so often they need to test you to make sure you’re actually who you say you’re. You need to stand out in there eyes. Otherwise they’d sleep with a new guy pretty much every night. Hell some do haha
[–]coachmelloweyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Mmm, but my point is simply that they don’t have magical superpowers… it’s always judgment in reference to the thousands of men she’s encountered.
[–]Technical_Hawk8547 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I disagree. I feel they’re hardwired through 1000 of years of evolution. They’re able to pick up on small hints a lot better then men. Basically boiling down to self preservation and safety. When was the last time you’ve approached a girl and felt threatened or in danger from them? It’s probably 0 or less then 2. Women have a lot more to worry about long term when selecting another partner, this has led them to have a keener eye or intuition. Having a lot of men approach them helps them tune it a bit, but ultimately the genetic makeup of that behaviour is already in place.
[–]coachmelloweyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I’m glad you disagree… I do believe women are 10x more cautious. But I think it simply manifests itself in them doing MORE to test. Not them actually having a natural instinct for knowing.
Hence why women at an early age are played like a fiddle.. they don’t have enough reference points. An older woman will eat you up.. why? Because she’s seen so many men in her life time and thus can read men like a book
[–]Total_Obligation_371 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You know what this is actually a very insightful nuance. They aren't naturally "more aware", they are just naturally more CAUTIOUS, which causes them to be more aware of things. This actually fits in nicely with how women are always scanning for value. So basically (with your added point here) women are always either scanning for value or danger. Hmm, just had a little mindset shift there. Thanks for posting this.
[–]coachmelloweyes 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
“Women are either scanning for value or danger” wonderfully put.
It has nothing to do with the hotness. It has everything to do with confidence and some women who wouldn’t be considered hot but confident could throw lots of shit tests your way. Maybe then her confidence could make her hot, who knows.
[–]Altruistic-Collar105 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Women, at least me, do not read men well whatsoever. We are actually oblivious creatures, for the most part. The older generation of women were much better at seeing men’s intentions and knowing what they wanted without them being forward, however for some reason millennial women and younger seem to really struggle with knowing a man’s intent. I think we are trained from early ages that if a man wants you, he will put forth a lot of effort, like call, ask you out, pursue. I read He’s Just Not That Into You and that was the holy grail of dating advice for many women for a long time. That book basically says, if the guy isn’t telling you he’s into you, he’s not. If he isn’t making time for you in some way, he’s not.
I truly have only known if a guy was interested if he outright told me or if he started talking to me way too much and wouldn’t go away. Other than that, I would have zero clue. Sometimes I would even mistake kindness or laughter for him being interested when that wasn’t the case. I think women need to be trained too, to understand what’s really happening with men, at least for me, I think if a guy isn’t saying he is in to me, he’s not. This doesn’t seem to be case as I read some of these comments.
[–]coachmelloweyes 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
No, infact I’d say that’s the rarest type of expression of desire from a man. Especially in a world where men are punished for being overt about their intentions.
I people watch all the time. I once saw a girl giving a guy choosing signals in the gym and he would look at her and then do nothing. As a man I knew what was happening, he was surveying whether it was worth the risk. She assumed he wasn’t interested and walked away.
If I was her friend I would’ve told her to work next to him so his level of investment is much lower.
So sad to see a missed opportunity. Please know that women are pretty oblivious. We are told that directness equals attraction and interest. We are not taught these things you’re telling me about.
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