When is ever okay to unfollow a girl, I've heard that it comes off as emotional and results in loss of frame. What are your thoughts on this? Ex gf not following my script [recovered]

Kennymacdougall · 2022-06-17T16:43:47+00:00

All women have option B in their lives. She is just taking care of her option B that is you by sending pics to you so as to keep you hooked in.

Class_Clown_247 · 2022-06-17T16:41:46+00:00

Just ignore her unless she’s gonna give benefits :)

Kennymacdougall · 2022-06-17T16:55:12+00:00

Ignore the bitch, brother.

Just ignore her and move on to other and better things. Focus on yourself 100%. You are number one.

She's just playing games with you. Walk away, ignore and start living your life without her.

Also, never ever take her back. Remember that she left you for another guy. If you take her back, you have shown her that she will always be able to control you. Never take back any girl who leaves you for another guy. It's disrespectful of her and she shows how she doesn't respect you. I have been there too and fell for it. Even if she offers you FWB, just be strong and let it go. Her pussy ain't worth shit.

You can do this brother.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2022-06-17T18:04:56+00:00

I personally would be done with her. Because I am done with her, I don't give a shit how strong or weak she perceives me as. All I care about is what I think of myself, I can block her ass and hold my head up high.

bcool_returns · 2022-06-17T18:20:25+00:00

She's still in that relationship but messages me and send pics here and there. Seems like everytime I get close to "scoring" she panics and pulls back and says she can't because she would be labeled a cheater.

Sounds about right. There's also the validation component. Never forget that. The definition of insanity is continuing to do the same thing and expecting a different result. That's when you pull back, keep your replies short or not at all.

I then informed her that I will NEVER be a guy friend without benefits.

I hope you did this non-verbally through your actions aka silence, rather than overtly aka butthurtedly.

? Do I unfollow here or just ignore her? How do I show strength to her in this situation? Would unfollowing appear weak?

Too much talk about her, not enough talk about you. If unfollowing is the best way for you to move on, do that. Who gives a damn what she thinks. You talk a lot about frame at the start of your post, but this is where it really comes into play. Some girls I've dated I've unfollowed. Others I simply just mute their stories/posts. It's whatever. But whatever decision I'm making, whatever line I'm drawing, I'm doing it for me. Her thoughts on the matter don't matter.

f1_77Bottasftw · 2022-06-17T17:56:06+00:00

What are you talking about here dude? It's ok to unfollow anyone when you are tired of their bullshit, now ask yourself are you tired of her bullshit?? it sounds like you are so unfollow and block her.

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-06-17T19:14:34+00:00

Unfollow her and get on with your life. She’s an example of one of the worst types of women you could get involved with.

mjornir · 2022-06-17T17:38:21+00:00

How is that a “loss of frame”? I barely know what the even means but it seems you lost it the minute you let what she thinks dictate your actions. If she’s playing hard to get just move on to greener pastures brother

Title	When is ever okay to unfollow a girl, I've heard that it comes off as emotional and results in loss of frame. What are your thoughts on this? Ex gf not following my script [recovered]
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Date	June 17, 2022 4:25 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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