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[–]Working_State_2521 12 points13 points14 points 4 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Never get too excited.
Set your expectations low, and you will never be dissapointed.
Better luck next time bro!
[–]conker1264 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Oh I’m not that disappointed, I just thought it was a funny coincidence that both ghosted.
[–]bandsupjay -2 points-1 points0 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Well youre obviously doing something wrong if thats the case. We dont know what happened but try to spark up convo more and be interesting. Dont be needy either and stay confident
[–]conker1264 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Eh I prefer not to converse too much through text, rather talk in person
[–]bandsupjay -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Doing that will only make you seem boring but ur call
[–]conker1264 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Overtexting is bad
[–]bandsupjay -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well yea obv but ur problem here is people going ghost so figure out why if u care. Its about balance
[–]Lighthero34 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And how do you do any of those things?
[–]bandsupjay 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Good advice
[–]shared0 10 points11 points12 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
When I was on tinder I had the same experience. Set up dates just so they get delayed more than once and the conversations die down and they end up ghosting at some point.
[–]conker1264 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, gotta love modern dating
[–]Fresh_Leek7371 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have to set it up for the same day or they lose interest
[–]shared0 4 points5 points6 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah well 95% of the time that's not possible, either for them or for yourself.
[–]djangountamed13 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
The further out the date the more likely they will flake/ghost. Usually I try to set up dates for day off/next day/couple days out. If you schedule a date a week out good luck!
[–]djangountamed13 7 points8 points9 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Basically women live their lives based on emotion. If she likes you right now and is in to the idea of hanging out with you, doesn't mean she'll feel the same way a week from now.
[–]Prestigious_Tart1089 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Look at it as god is helping you out maybe they had AIDS
[–]Majunior93 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Sadly this is quite common doesn’t matter if you look good or everything went well . People just suck most of the time . The dating world is pretty crazy . It’s easier to stay single and let the right one come . I know it sounds like a broken record at this point . But its definitely truth to it .
[–]shared0 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I know it sounds like a broken record at this point .
Depending on luck is dumb wtf.
[–]jackedsoon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
How solid were the plans
Set a date, place, and time
[–]jackedsoon 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yh just unlucky i guess
[–]bandsupjay 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Probably just wasnt feeling it, maybe not enough stimulation at that point shes just going on a date with some “random” guy
[–]jackedsoon 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
True
Only thing i could say is make sure you aren’t needy
[–]002BigBoss 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why you should f close every chance you get
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