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[β]shared0 8 points9 points10 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Dude, I feel like women do these strange things all the time. I'm not sure why. It's confusing af and trying to interpret it is just impossible.
If any girl reads this feel free to explain this behavior or why it happens π€£
[β]applejuicedrink1 4 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Get this. She randomly unblocked me this morning. I don't think they know themselves why they do these things.
[β]shared0 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Damn bro. They really are mysteries. Maybe the options being plentiful for them has something to do with it. I dunno.
[–]applejuicedrink12 points 4 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yes it's definitely the abundance of options. They don't have to act right because there are no consequences for their actions.
[β]Pabst34 5 points6 points7 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
A few pieces of random advice/observations.
Don't feel anxious, don't fret but next time think your game through. Besides, you asked a chick out, we're all proud of you. It sounds like her loss.
[β]applejuicedrink1 4 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Yeah I think she just likes to talk. I just thought because she appeared to engage with me MORE after I asked her out that things were moving in a positive direction.
Bro, please believe that I thought she was full of shit too. The way she said she was busy the entire week threw me off, basically not leaving me any window of opportunity. I was genuinely going to end the convo then and there but she offered up the following week and asked if that was OK with me. To my understanding when a woman offers an alternative date that's usually a good thing. Looking back she probably hoped I would forget.
Lol there is nothing special about Mondays. It's just that I work shift patterns and I'm free on a Monday. I also work Friday evenings. And she works on Saturday. And if you aren't high on a girls priority list it's probably best not to take up their Saturday evening. We are both free on Monday plus I suggested we go to a museum so it's not like we are going to a bar where its better on a weekend.
Thanks for the positive encouragement I will be more diligent about my approach next time. I will try to remain positive at work and not let this disturb me.
[β]Pabst34 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I can tell that you've got a solid head on your shoulders with all the right tools. You don't need help, you're already there!
[β]DestinyChitChat 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I would love to hear the story about how someone lost the love of their life because they sent a follow up "?" and broke the double text rule.
Sure double texting can be bad, but if that's enough for her to block you then in reality you never had her to begin with. Nothing you can do
Usually I chalk these things up to an ex bf or something else I know nothing about. People's emotions change on a day to day basis so who knows what is going on with her.
The only thing you have control over is your reaction to the situation and you are doing very well. Who knows, maybe in a few weeks or months she'll realize she was a fool and will reach out to you. Don't let anyone convince you that you did something wrong. They likely never actually get laid and only read about theory.
[β]jaysucess1_ 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmao
[β]ResponsibilityKey427 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is why I donβt ask out co workers
[β]YtBlue 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Next time stand her up. Watch what happens the next time you ask to do something. Women date up not down, that means in actions especially.
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