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SnooPets1514 · 2022-05-26T09:07:05+00:00

Have you not mentioned yet where you’ll be meeting/what you’ll be doing? Inviting her over first thing is ballsy and I’d venture to say 9 times out of 10 you’re setting yourself up for failure.

I’d exaggerate and go in the opposite direction. Something along the lines of ‘painting your nails and combing your hair.’

She probably knows / might be down to fuck but is testing you. Diffuse the situation with humour. Last thing you want to do is show thirst

bcool_returns · 2022-05-26T13:40:30+00:00

These posts never have context and I'm not sure why. WHO is this girl? Have you met her before? What's the vibe? Have you already established WHERE you'll be meeting tonight? You need to clarify that in your mind and then communicate it to us so that we're not just shooting blind. Could be as simple as her probing for the logistics that you've yet to provide ("A few... Let's start at XYZ bar and go from there." etc)

jassem_rk · 2022-05-26T08:05:12+00:00

She said "wild plans" so prolly she won't get turned off ya knw,but don't take my word for it just a opinion

BitchLetEmKnow · 2022-05-26T08:14:11+00:00

Tell her everything you want to do minus sex.

If sex is the only thing you want to do, allude to it. Don't say it outright.

Source: a girl who also plays the game/likes the chase

bittr_n_swt · 2022-05-26T09:05:04+00:00

Whatever you do don’t mention sex. It kills the suspense and she’ll suddenly not be able to meet.

Just say some shit like a gentleman never tells or something similar

Liberaler · 2022-05-26T09:08:44+00:00

"wild plans - I like that ;) Let's start off by [what you originally wanted to offer her]"

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-05-26T10:28:45+00:00

Tell her. It's a first date. We are getting to know each other and finding out if we get along. I have only one rule. There is no kissing on the first date. But if all goes well and we do like each other, we can cut this one short and jump straight into the second date and make out all we want. We can go on 3-4 dates while we are at it.

revente · 2022-05-26T10:50:59+00:00

Is this supposed to be your first date with her?

Unless it's a surprise it's usually to include the activity time and location in your text. So she can make an informed decision if she wants to go or not.

If it's your 1st date I'd choose something low commitment like drinks/coffee (+a walk in a park later).

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