How to get a girl you're dating to invest more?

nevertextgoodnight · 2022-05-25T04:56:19+00:00

Stop contacting her. Go silent till you hear from her. You'll know if she's really interested or not. If she's a challenging girl it might take around a week to hear from her. If you don't hear from her you'll get your answer

Also why are you talking about what you want your "future gf" to be like. You should not be talking about the future in any way within 3 dates, maybe if you're joking like "I could see you in a bikini on the beach this summer" but even then it's thin ice.

I just reread your post, it seems like you're doing things 55% right and just hanging by a thread. Tighten up your game, mirror her interest level. Do what I said in the first paragraph. She prob thinks she's got you in the bag so time to take a step back

Also keep in mind it's one thing to get a few shit tests, but if a girl is constantly challenging you take note as a red flag. It's not just you in the hot seat, she has flaws too. And if she's a head ache now, it'll only get worse.

jsbach123 · 2022-05-25T06:52:32+00:00

Instead of expecting her to invest more, you should simply invest less.

revente · 2022-05-25T09:01:52+00:00

1st have sex with her. Then withdraw a little.

stanthemilkman88 · 2022-05-25T09:15:55+00:00

Medium is the message. You're throwing all this attention at her causing attention inflation making it worth less.

You pull back, don't call. If she doesn't then there is the message.

You can't make other people do anything.

rhofire · 2022-05-25T10:32:35+00:00

You need to dump this girl already. You’re asking the wrong question. She doesn’t like you or respect you. Unless you want to too get hurt very badly, let her go and never take her back.

TheTruth221 · 2022-05-25T06:57:20+00:00

i leave her on red and tell her i got something important to tell her then never tell her

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-05-25T10:45:50+00:00

Whatever she's doing it's working.

Title	How to get a girl you're dating to invest more?
Author	George97o
Upvotes	3
Comments	25
Date	May 25, 2022 4:29 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ux9dtc/how_to_get_a_girl_youre_dating_to_invest_more/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/how-to-get-a-girl-youre-dating-to-invest-more.1258734 https://theredarchive.com/post/1258734

Comments