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[–]KriticalKarl 3 points4 points5 points 4 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
It’s a good idea, you save yourself a ton of time especially if they seem flaky, you can just tell based off their enthusiasm that they will likely flake.
This is why I prefer to deal with women who have high interest, you skip a lot of the games and you actually get the company of someone who is genuinely interested in you.
[–]porkybrah 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Definitely great advice man It gets tiring when your trying to set things up but if it just seems like they’ll flake.if you put the ball in their court you’ll really know If they get back to you great if not go do your own thing talk to other women etc that’s what I’m just gonna do.She’s not gonna hear from me I’m cutting contact she can reach out if she’s really interested.
[–]KriticalKarl 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I’m telling you man, if she’s interested in you she WILL be in touch. It never fails, and if she reaches out she’s interested. If they aren’t interested in you then they won’t be in your orbit, unless of course they are using you.
[–]porkybrah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Lol bro I know this is late but I Ignored her for 3 days no contact she texts me not long ago saying I don’t like when you leave me on opened :(
[–]KriticalKarl 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
I told you man, she wants that validation. Now how you turn the tables is use this opportunity to set a date with her. If she declines tell her to get in contact with you when she changes her mind and leave it at that.
[–]porkybrah 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link
Before I went ghost I told her to Give me a text when you want to set something up she was like ok no problem.Then in the texts after she said about being left on read she didn’t know why I dissapeared on her for few days.I said to her I thought she was gonna text me when she wanted to set something up because she said it was no problem.Was that a good reply or nah? How should I play this bro what do you think?
[–]KriticalKarl 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
DM me bro.
[–]porkybrah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Done
[–]Therocksays2020 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Absolutely. In my experience putting the ball in their court is great because you can forget about them and focus on new connections. Many never reach out but the ones that do are usually doing so because they want something 😈
[–]KriticalKarl 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I agree, it’s a mental thing. I let the woman I am pursuing now do all the initiating. It just easier that that dynamic of sending a text and waiting for a response, you eliminate all that anxiety with high interest women. I tend to be “radio silent” unless I’m setting up the next time we will meet, not to say we don’t talk in between, she initiates and I respond. Occasionally I will send a text that is a statement like “Goodmorning, have a good day” and keep it pushing, it’s not needy because you aren’t engaging a convo, and you don’t have to wait around for a reply but you know what she’s going to say. It’s a mindset thing.
[–]Romantic_Adventurer 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
People who are interested in meeting you, are interested in meeting you. They will go out of their way to meet you. Like drug addicts, they will do everything possible to get their fix, that is what you want (in a more romantic and beautiful healthy way)
When they are not, they do everything possible to not meet you.
So, open more sets, meet more people, make more friends, ask more people out, have sincere fun. make your physical health and mental health your priority, capitalize your gains in money making skills and just make the best out of life.
[–]TheTruth221 -1 points0 points1 point 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
yeah just tell them to text u when they trying to fuck
[–]PHVEDO 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
thats the default answer idk what u have been doing until now
I know bro lol
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
I’m neutral on this idea. I do think when you resort to this tactic you sorta know she’s not going to contact you.
[–]porkybrah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Pretty much but then you’ll know that person was not worth the effort if they weren’t giving the same energy they were receiving.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
The last woman I exchanged numbers with seemed really into me ,but when I reached out she never replied back. My take is anyone that doesn’t respond to a text or a call is inconsiderate. Ask yourself, why would you want someone inconsiderate in your life?
[–]porkybrah 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
What this post is about is not that they ignore texts or calls it’s to do with the possibility of them flaking on a date or having some inconvenient excuse when bringing up a date so if they really wanted it they reach out by me putting the ball in their court.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
It all ties together. If they’re inconsiderate, don’t waste your time.
[–]porkybrah 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yea I guess so man I’m just gonna keep my distance anyways.
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Remember, flaky is just another word for inconsiderate. If they don’t care about you now, they won’t care about you later
[–]GlitteringPause8 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hm I would say set a date and time and ask if she can make that, and confirm with her day off.
Putting the ball in her court if she is flaky means she's never gonna make solid plans OR text you super spontaneously to hang out of nowhere and that's kinda annoying if you happen to be busy
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